"Sleeping apart definitely puts a damper on your sex life," says Mom•Logic senior writer/producer Julie Taylor, co-author of How to Be a Dominant Diva. "If you are not physically close night after night, you're likely to grow apart sexually and emotionally, too."

If you frequently sleep apart from your husband, try Taylor's tips:

60-minute snuggle: Does your hubby snore? If earplugs just aren't cutting it, make an effort to snuggle together at least an hour a night. "Just because you don't sleep together doesn't mean you can't spend time in bed together," she says. "Fit in some intimate time at least once a day."
Daytime pillow talk: Sleeping in separate beds means you miss out on pillow talk...catching up on your day, talking about your dreams, and the like. So make an extra effort to communicate with your partner during waking hours to keep the lines of communication open.
Cut down on co-sleeping: If you don't sleep together because of the kids (either because they sleep with you, or one of you sleeps with them), make "sleep training" your children a priority. "If you think they won't be able to sleep without you, it's time for an attitude adjustment," she says. "Just imagine how poorly they'd sleep when you're in the middle of a divorce. Because if you choose sleeping with your kids over your husband, that's where you're headed."