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Move Over Kid: Mama Needs Her Toys

Monday, December 3, 2007
filed under: kid logic

Why are otherwise level-headed Moms getting crazy when it comes to the hottest holiday gifts?

Remember the Cabbage Patch craze? Pokemon? The original Tickle Me Elmo? For as long as we can remember, there have been "must have" holiday toys. This year, everybody and their mother wants a Wii. In fact, especially their mother. But is it really about the kids, or do Moms just go cuckoo when it comes to pleasing their offspring?

One of our Mom•Logic Moms admits that she never even considered a Wii until she saw how hard to get it was. "My husband doesn't need a Wii. My kids are toddlers. Why am I running all over the place to find a gift my family doesn't even need?" She adds, "I hit Toys R Us early yesterday morning to get the Fisher Price Smart Cycle after seeing it on Mom•Logic. How did a Web site suck me into rushing out for a toy I didn't even know about the day before? I work here!"

We asked Mom•Logic friend and psychologist Dr. Pamela Varady what the motivation is for parents who go over the top when it comes to finding the perfect gift. "Parents are so addicted to making their kids happy. They'll do anything that will put a smile on their child's face."

We also asked Dr. Varady if parents should resist temptation, or enjoy the madness. "Find a balance. Pick and choose what's worth it. Ask yourself, 'How long will this bring my child happiness? Is it educational?' If 10 minutes after opening it they're not interested, you'll be wondering why you killed yourself to get it."

Check out "must have" toys of the past in our "Rate It" photo gallery!


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It’s hard not to get caught up in the hype, because there’s nothing better then seeing that moment of joy on Christmas morning - but it’s usually followed up by a barrage of curse words when it breaks an hour later. I spent $80 on a doll that poops last year - only to see it on sale for $20 two days after Christmas - that’s pain.
- Ladyblue
Posted 12/03/07 12:38 PM
 
My parents have a Wii, and it is a lot of fun but not worth the grief. My parents decided to get one for my nieces (their granddaughters) and after one trip to stand in line at 6 am decided to just give them their Wii and wait until after the holidays to replace it. I bought a Tickle me Elmo for regular price 20 days after Christmas. My suggestion is that if it is a must have. Tell your children about it and take a picture or get a game. I think patience is a valuable lesson anyways.
- Heathlove
Posted 12/03/07 02:00 PM
 
The best toy craze EVER was the “Cabbage Patch Kids.” Children and adults still love them today.
- Dillon
Posted 12/03/07 08:43 PM
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