20 million marriages are sexless--no, it's not just yours.
Holy matrimony! Dudes don't want to do the deed? According to the NY Post, a recent study done by New York City sexologist and author Bob Berkowitz and his writer wife, Susan Yager-Berkowitz, finds that two out three men polled aren't into it because their wives don't excite them. Ouch! What's the matter guys, hairy legs and flannel don't get your engine revving?
Now, we at Mom•Logic like to joke about the lack of sleep, sex, and smooth legs as much as the next gal--but when it comes to saving our marriages, we say, hit the sack! It doesn't take a sex scientist to see that if you're not connecting physically, the rest will fall apart soon after. But don't take it from us--even Mom•Logic senior writer/producer Julie Taylor, co-author of How to Be a Dominant Diva, says just do it! "Sometimes the only way to get in the mood is to have sex even when you don't feel like it. Once the juices start flowing, the passion will kick in." Julie says that attempting to have sex at least once a week will boost your physical and emotional bond.