Mom•Logic's Jackie: Instead of judging fellow Moms, let's make a pact for solidarity.

When the whole Spitzer scandal broke, it seemed everyone, including me, was wondering why his wife would ever stand next to him during a press conference. Terms like self respect and kicking to the curb were tossed around--what was she thinking?

But upon further reflection, who am I to decide what she should do in her marriage? I've been married a few years myself and one thing I've learned is that it's not easy. What was black and white the day I walked down the aisle has turned to a fuzzy shade of grey through the years. If she chooses to stand by her husband and try to show her daughters that their family is, in fact, still in tact--then we should support her and not criticize.

It's hard enough being a wife and mother. As Moms, we have the power to support each other in ways no one else can. Lets not kick the woman when she's down--when we have an opportunity to have each other's backs, we should take it. Are you in?