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Mom of 13: "I Escaped Polygamy"

Monday, April 7, 2008
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One survivor shares her incredible story.

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As we read the CNN report that more than 200 women and children have been removed from a Texas ranch that's home to members of a polygamous sect, we wondered what really goes through the minds of a Mom involved in polygamy. To find out, Mom•Logic talked to Pauline, a Mom of 13, who escaped a different polygamous group. Here is her story: 

Mom•Logic: How did you get involved in a polygamous sect?

Pauline: About 15 years ago, I went through a divorce and I was at a particularly vulnerable part of my life. I was introduced to a 64-year-old who was a Mormon Fundamentalist leader. I married him, and became one of his many wives. At the time, my youngest daughter was 11. She ended up marrying him, too,  becoming his 17th wife.

Mom•Logic: That's chilling. How many children do you have?

Pauline: I have 13 children, and four of my daughters are still in the cult. I don't worry about three of my daughters because they are not involved in polygamy, but they are involved in the church. They stay because it's the only life they know. I do worry about my fourth daughter because she's terribly abused, brainwashed, and mistreated. She won't leave because she's scared she'll be condemned. Her husband rules her like a tyrant. His second wife has taken over to the point where she tells my daughter when to eat and what clothes to wear. She even raises my daughter's two children. My daughter cannot make any decisions on her own.

Mom•Logic: How did you escape?

Pauline: In 2004, I escaped with one daughter and my son. My son was going to get kicked out anyway because that's what they usually do with the boys. My husband was built up to be such a prophet and you were never allowed to talk against him, but I called him and told him I knew he was a phony, and I was going to leave. At some point, I learned if I stood up to my husband, he'd be exposed. He had no choice but to let us leave. He tried to intimidate us, but we stayed strong.

Mom•Logic: How would you describe this current situation at the compound in Texas?

Pauline: It's dangerous for everyone involved. But this may be some of the women and children's way out. It really depends on how much they are brainwashed. Some of them don't know it's wrong, and they think this is the right way to live. I fear it will end in bloodshed, just like Waco.

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Wow!
- Audrey
Posted 04/07/08 08:22 PM
 
how scary. and how sad that her children are still in there.
- cyndi
Posted 04/07/08 09:31 PM
 
And Mitt Romney, who isnt from this sect but its the base for this spring board sect, and he was running for President. How scary is that.. Ive been to salt lake city, and Ive taken the tour of the LDS, and Im catholic. I went to see what this religion was about other than the historical data. After I left, I was bombarded for 2 to 3 months trying to get me to join their church. Not the kind of guy I wanna elect president or vice president, or dog catcher.
- tony
Posted 04/07/08 10:54 PM
 
Thank you Pauline, for sharing your story and for your bravery.
- Sarah
Posted 04/08/08 03:23 AM
 
I cannot believe there are SO many FREAKY religious cults in America!!
- Mish
Posted 04/08/08 04:33 AM
 
Wow - way to show your true ignorance Tony. Mitt Romney is Mormon, but he isn’t involved with the Fundamentalist LDS sect. Not all Mormons are FLDS. The generalizations you make are ignorant. It’s like saying ALL Muslims are terrorists, or ALL Catholic priests are child molesters. Get some information before spouting bad facts.
- April
Posted 04/08/08 08:44 AM
 
Thank you Pauline for sharing your story I hope there are more mothers who have the courage and bravery to escape such evil men that are just control freaks.
- Penae
Posted 04/08/08 01:36 PM
 
MBYB polygamy
- ed lisbe
Posted 04/12/08 06:40 AM
 
i think its absolutely disgusting and i feel sorry for the children who are born into this type of chaos they are innocent and dont know whats going on until its too late, how can they even call it a religion none of the things that go on are ethical no religon thats good is going to tell you to have many wives and to rape young girls and force them to marry and bear children by a man that could very possibly be old enough to be their grandfather its just a way for them to justify abuse in their sick and twisted minds.
- Amber
Posted 04/12/08 11:56 AM
 
Unfortunately the saying, “Power corrupts. Absolute power corrupts absolutely.” is absolutely true. If these folks were in a different culture, raping their children would not be tolerated. As it is, in cults, children/women become prey and eventually the whole sect ends up in a suicide pact. A word of advice for all of us though—religions and cults are totally different social structures. One promotes healthy ideas/attitudes. The other isolates and conquers.
- MaryEllen
Posted 05/16/08 03:37 PM
 
what horney basterds…seems that they made up this religon to satisfy there selves in every kind of way…some one needs to kick there butts….
- sonia tx
Posted 05/30/08 06:49 PM
 
there just some horney basterds thats use religon to try to say its right…and a way to take advanage of young gils with out going to jail for doing it…someone needs to kick there butts really goood
- sonia..texas
Posted 05/30/08 06:57 PM
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