First of all I think thirteen is too young to have access to this web site. They don’t need to know who has the best sex life, we’re trying to keep them from having sex at such a young age, lets not glamorize it for them. Secondly as to the poll, I don’t think it matters. It depends on the couples involved, how involved they are with each other. How much time are they willing to set aside for their spouse? Does being intimate with your spouse have the same meaning it did when you first got married? The most important question is, is your spouse a wonderful, thoughtful, selfless lover? Does he make sure your needs are met? If he isn’t or doesn’t, then it doesn’t matter if you work or stay at home. I’ve been both and trust me I speak from experience.