I hope I’ll be able to breastfeed, but for those who can’t/won’t…isn’t that what breast pumps are for?

Just wondering since I’m barely pregnant and don’t really know..yet.

Sallie, breast pumps don’t do you any good if your milk doesn’t come in at all…

I worked with a lactation nurse for two weeks after the twins were born, and nothing.

So yes, please slap on more guilt.

The thing is that some people already feel way guilty about not breastfeeding. This study, and others of its kind, simply state the results of an experiment. That’s it. I wonder why some people are so petrified of hearing research findings. Whether or not the findings are accurate, they are simply results. Nothing more, nothing less. People should feel free to question the hypothesis, the methodology, the interpretation of the data,and the researchers’ biases, but it is neurotic to protest the very existence of the research. Those who know that they are doing their best will not feel guilty upon reading the results of some study. If someone feels guilt upon the release of research, perhaps that person believes that she is in fact *not* doing her best.

None of this is in judgment of those who do not, cannot, or will not breastfeed. I’m simply stating that guilt does not surface because of external forces; it surfaces in response to an internal cue.

I don’t think it SHOULD add to guilt-it’s just more information so that moms can make informed decisions. Have I/do I breastfeed? Is this the best choice? Yes. Do I always make the best decisions 100% of the time? Nope-who does? No matter what mom’s will feel guilty about something. Just continue to make the decisions that work best for your family. Your way might not be my way but that doesn’t make it the wrong way!
—Maureen

I breastfed my son for 5 months - and never wanted to. I never had the desire the breastfeed, as it made me uncomfortable. But I felt pressured by everyone who spouted “breast is best” the entire time I was pregnant.

Now I’ve learned that while “breast is best” in SOME cases, it isn’t best in all. I hated breastfeeding, and it made me anxious every time - I know my son could pick up on that. When we made the switch to formula, we were BOTH much happier.

And I’m sorry - but I know several babies that were nursed until the age of 2 (and beyond) and they are in no way smarter or healthier than my son. I honestly think it depends on the genes of each baby. My son was on formula for 7 months - not once did he get sick. And he’s advanced for his age. The breastfed babies I know (all 3 of them - LOL) each had ear infections all throughout their early years and are in no way more advanced than my son.

Well, being a mom and a current breastfeeding mother I think that everyone is different. I will always say that breast is best. But with having 4 children I will say that yes they were all different, and still are. Yes they are smart but in a different way.. I would say though for the moms that cannot produce the milk, call a milk bank or see if you can have milk from another mother. Trust me it works.

This study is a load of crap!

I’d like to see how this study explains away the intelligence of my boys, both of whom were adopted and therefore were never breastfed. The stimuli provided by parents and the family boost children’s intelligence and every mom can commit to stimulating her child’s senses and intellect whether she feeds him/her at her breast or through a bottle.

I pumped for a month so my son could learn to latch on, and I’m glad I did because once we caught on, breastfeeding seemed to make our lives so much easier and more convenient. But as for IQ points…maybe there is a difference, maybe not, but it’s not such a huge number of points anyway, and of course, even if the study is correct, it’s looking at averages. Certainly doesn’t mean that somebody who isn’t breastfed won’t be intelligent, or that someone who is, will…

I feel strongly that judging people for making a different choice isn’t helpful.

For mother’s of premature infants, breastfeeding isn’t an option. Formula would be better than compounding postpartum depression for those having a rough time.

Judging someone isn’t helping you and certainly isn’t helping them. Being able to accept and appreciate differences in those around us will make this a better place for our children. So lets be kind to eachother….

By the way, I find breasting feeding to be a wonderful bonding experience and a lot easier and less expensive than using formula but, I know not everyone feels the same.

One of my friends gave birth to a son 2months early. She pump her breast everyday and took to the NIC unit so her baby could be fed.Her doctor said it was the best thing she could do.Her baby recovered 60% faster than other babies born 2 months early. Last year my grandson was born May 26 and he was due the middle of July. I told my daughter in-law and she try the breast feeding and my son out of the hospital less than 3weeks.