Man Caves Can Save Your Marriage

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Want to keep your home life harmonious? Maybe it's time to send your man to his room.

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That beat-up wagon-wheel coffee table from When Harry Met Sally showed the world that, when it comes to decorating, men and women are not only not on the same page, they aren't even reading the same book. A remedy making the rounds is something called a "man cave," a place where husbands can cut themselves off from the world of seagrass rugs, sideboards, and responsibility and surround themselves with girlie posters, bowling trophies and--we're guessing--beer. (We don't know for sure...they won't let us in to take a look.)

Don't confuse all man caves with traditional dens. Families these days are letting Dad take it outside to hole up in small detached rooms in the backyard. Kind of like the grown-up version of a tree fort, but replaced with a "No wives or kids allowed" sign tacked on the door.


Some couples actually swear by the "mantuary," saying it cuts down on bickering. Could it be because men are innately territorial and have a deep-seated need to claim their own space? Hey, it beats arguing over when he's going to get rid of the tattered, stained, brown leather La-Z-Boy chair in the living room.

Does your man have a "man cave"?

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T on May 20, 2008 3:38 PM wrote:

wow. that sounds like terrible advice. My husband has a man-cave and it’s the worst thing to hit our marrige since… kids? Sure, it sounds good in theory, but giving your husband a place where he can hide from the responsibilty of having a family and DRINK BEER or whatever they do is a stupid notion. How about a night out or time off from the family? But rest assured if they have a cave to go to- you’ll resent them and their stupid man-cave. You’ll want to strangle them. Think about a mom cave where we go to escape kids and the husband. THat would be just so popular, wouldn’t it? The reality is that parenting is a team sport when two parents are involved. Don’t let one of the team members stop participating, by creating a sanctuary for irresponsibility.

 
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The Founding Father on May 20, 2008 10:20 PM wrote:

I think the opposing comment from “T” has less to do with the fact that her husband has his own Mantuary and more to do with the health of their relationship.

 
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