Doesn’t matter to ME if it’s an acronym or not - I still find it derogatory and yes, totally objectifying. There are some who think it’s flattering to be an ‘object’. Get over yourself and grow up.

I remember the term well from my days nannying at the country club and hanging out with lifeguards. I really hope that when I’m toting my kids around I’m not attractive to 16 year old teenagers, but, on the other hand, I hope they’re not saying “Mrs so-and-so really needs to go on what not to wear”.

I am happy guys find Moms hot. Is that bad?

I don’t see the big deal - personally, I wouldn’t care if someone called me a MILF. It doesn’t really matter… if it flatters some people, who cares? It doesn’t mean they need to grow up or get over themselves. Maybe passing judgment on others on such a trivial matter proves that maybe you should grow up and get over yourself?

Funny - I was actually called a MILF today by some high-schoolers. Considering I’m 37 and had a baby 9 weeks ago, I find it extremely flattering!

I saw American Pie and I thought it was appropriate for the movie and funny at the time but somehow I don’t think I’d like someone to use the term about me just because the language is a bit too strong. Sure I want to be seen as attractive but I’m not sure I care if a high school kid thinks I’m ‘F’ worthy. Kinda gross.
Also now it’s overused and that’s just boring either way.

What next FILF?

This is not a nice acronym at all. A REAL Mother is a person who society should have respect for. Whether or not you find her sexy.

I’m not sure what REAL Mother would like High School Children to look at them in that manner or have their own child look at a friends mother in that manner. I suppose a very insecure mother! who always wants to remain young and ageless.

It’s just a matter of time before the people who use this acronym start acting upon their words either voluntarily or by force.

That would make a nice headline right? If they film it they can put it on you tube.

I don’t think we should fan the flame on this one. I think we should pour a bucket on it. Adults have a responsibility to educate the younger generation about acceptable social responsibilities towards others.

I find being called a MILF VERY flattering! Anytime anyone compliments me in any way I find it flattering. I think people have become too sensitive to EVERYTHING lately. Everything has become an issue. It’s a shame because it brings the humanity and kindness out of the world. I am NOT advocating sexual harrasment in anyway here. I just know that sometimes, being a mom is the LEAST flattering thing. I can’t tell you how many times I get to work only to find a yogurt stain on my pants from my daughters or I’m a pack mule carrying all their “stuff” to and from. Then there’s always the times when we’re so busy trying to get the kids ready and everything together for something that I don’t have time to make sure I am all put together, and my socks don’t match or I didn’t have time to get my hair done and it’s into a ponytail. So if someone thinks I look like a MILF….then GOOD FOR ME!

Here I agree with only half of you. Yes it is flattering to be called a milf… BUT not by HS kids… Being called a milf by men my age is whats flattering.

What does “MILF” stand for?

As insecure as I feel about my body since I had my second child last summer I take any compliment like that. It makes me feel not so down on myself. People need to stop blowing things like this out of proportion. Is it really worth worrying about?? Take it as a compliment and go on.

It’s a compliment, because kids are supposed to say it to an adult as a joke. Another way of saying “Your mom’s hot”.

;D

if an adult says it to a mother, it’s just plain creepy.

I think it IS a term primarily used by high school and college students. I find it creepy. You can’t talk to boys that age without them thinking you might be hitting on them! They’re thinking MILF when that’s nowhere in the situation; not anywhere near what you’re thinking. Just CREEPY!

My new beau sent me a text message that just said “MILF” and it totally made me smile. We’re both in our late 20’s-been seeing each other for 2-3 months. And we have similar senses of humor. But I don’t think I would like it if he talked about me that way to other people, which I don’t think he would. It was just something kinda fun for the both of us.

Young men have always fantasized about older women, I believe it’s a “Right of Passage” into puberty. Many never act on it, but it’s no different than sneaking a look at Playboy. They know they’ll never be with a Playmate, but it’s arousing to fantasize about them. However, for those of you who find it creepy or insulting to think about boys having a healthy libido, I feel sorry for your sons, since they’re the ones who resort to peeking in windows and forcing themselves on others, simply because you have made him ashamed and unsure of his sexuality. Open your minds and consider it a compliment if anyone thinks of you as a ” Mother I’d like to F—k”. There are worst things…

What ever happened to having “CLASS”? why does it HAVE to sound SO RUDE!

Personally if a HS kid or a college guy said i was a MILF i would be like “AAWWWLLL YEA I AM!!” but i’m also only 22. so i dont think another 22 year old guy sayin im good lookin is crazy..lol. i dont really see anything wrong with it. If you dont like it dont tollerate it, but my husband says i’m a MILF n i think its HOTT…it makes me feel good about me. and what mom really has time to do all the work that comes with making yourself feel good…its easier to hear someone say “Dang MILF” i get it all the time and im polite and say “THANK YOU!!!”