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Mom's into Porn?

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It's not just for men anymore.

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We've heard all it before--porn objectifies women. But sexy flicks may not be as demeaning as once believed, according to a recent Australian study.

After studying dozens of the best-selling porn movies, researchers found that based on which characters had names, who was more sexually satisfied, and who was coerced into having sex, men were the ones objectified--not women.

If you're curious, but the thought of downloading porn creeps you out, check out female-friendly flicks by director Candida Royalle. Then watch whenever you need a passionate pick-me-up.

If porn is a no-go for you (no matter how classy the flick), try some non-porn porn...sexy mainstream movies that will turn you on without grossing you out.

What do you think about porn -- turn-on or buzzkill?


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22 comments so far | Post a comment now
patrice May 24, 2008, 5:43 PM

Love the list of sexy movies, but you forgot one—infidelity. That scene when she first has the affair with one of the hottest men alive…one of the sexiest scenes ever!

Mark June 4, 2008, 11:22 AM

And Patrice, you’re the reason why the idea of marriage is going down the tubes. The idea tittilates you so much huh? God help whatever relationship you’re in.

Anonymous June 5, 2008, 2:14 PM

this really turns me on ,watching these movies i get great satisfaction both my husband and myself we call it our teaser

Michele July 25, 2008, 4:22 PM

I used to enjoy watching porn, then I found out that my husband was addicted to it and was downloading it at work, comparing ME to what he sees in those films, and wanting ME to be like the girls he saw in the films. We went to counseling for 3 years. He swore to give up porn and get help for his addiction, but a few weeks ago, I found some more on the computer. I cannot even watch porn now.

Just some one August 12, 2008, 9:36 PM

Porn is one of the fastest growing addictions in the country. You don’t even have to leave the house to find it. It finds YOU! It comes through on your TV and Computor, Porn Rapes the mind! How do young men and women who are exposed to it even think about having a normal relationship. The daytime soaps are porn now. I vote NO for Porn, And say that a nice massage with your husband is far better.

A loving husband August 12, 2008, 10:31 PM

Give me a break… porn is the big, bad, evil wolf, right? Please. I like porn - there, I said it. I also like to have sex with my wife. Should you expect your wife to act out what’s on the screen? No, but there’s nothing wrong with trying something new every once-in-awhile. That’s healthy for your sex life. Why do so many women think a man is addicted to porn if he looks at it more than once a week? I agree, downloading porn at work is stupid and you have to have limits. But porn can definitely be part of a normal, healthy relationship. A little fantasy could spice things up, as long as you stay grounded in reality. Porn in general is not evil. The problem is when people DECIDE to do someting they shouldn’t based on what they’ve seen in a porno movie or online.

ananymous August 12, 2008, 11:09 PM

I agree with loving husband’s comments. It spices up your sex life and of course trying something different is fun. But getting hooked on it is not acceptable for man or woman. People have to have control of their life and know right from wrong so they can make the right decisions.

Stebe August 13, 2008, 8:03 PM

Guys should try some Manties to spice up thier bedroom fun. Google Manties and try them out for something a little different that she will definatly love.

ananymous August 13, 2008, 11:42 PM

Manties???? Are you serious? How does Manties spice up your sex life?

sherocks August 27, 2008, 10:02 AM

Stebe, if you are turned on by seeing your man tip-toe around in his “Manties,” I think that you’s two SHOULD start watching porn!

Linda September 2, 2008, 8:29 PM

My husband and I watch porn together and it’s great… and the best part - he gives me a massage while we’re watching it together. All I need to do is make a little comment once in a while and the massage gets more intense.

Also, we started doing this new foreplay workout from Unisexy Fitness and it’s been amazing… During the last song you’re suppose to just relax with your eyes closed. I do - but my husband always touches me.

Allys September 5, 2008, 12:39 PM

I like porn, but I don’t like the pic of the guy in this article- what is he-12? Twelve year olds don’t turn me on! How ‘bout you show a MAN?

josh  September 26, 2008, 3:53 PM

fags

wrong October 7, 2008, 2:17 PM

Porn is wrong. You are being unfaithful to your spouse in your thoughts. Its not healthy- its wrong. And if you wonder why there are so many rapists and sickos in the world- it starts with just a little porn and grows into a horrible addiction that people cant get away from because those images are locked into your head. Its sick and wrong and anyne who justifies it is just advocating evil.

the watcher November 7, 2008, 4:38 PM

ted bundy had a porn addiction

Vishal November 23, 2008, 5:51 AM

when its not bad dreaming about having sex with someone else while having sex with your husband or wife, it is not a crime to actually see it and enjoy it. adultery is in mind. if both partner watch and enjoy it it is not bad rather it spices up.

Cindy December 16, 2008, 9:30 PM

well i like porn, it gets me really exaited. but i dont know how to tell my husband. I feel like he will gudge me, or think i am weird.

APRIL December 19, 2008, 6:27 AM

WELL, FIRST OF ALL EVERYONE IS ENTITLED TO THERE OPINION, BUT I HAVE A FRIEND WHO WAS SO INTO PORN THAT IT COMPLETLEY TOOK OVER HIS LIFE, HE STARTED SLEEPING WITH OTHER WOMEN (HE IS MARRIED) AND SNEEKING AROUND. HE ALSO SLEPT WITH HIS WIFE LIKE THREE TIMES A DAY. ALL HE DID WAS SIT ON THE COMPUTER AND MASTREBATE OR BEG HIS WIFE FOR SEX, IT BECAME IT’S OWN ENTITY. HE COULD NOT EVEN WORK. IT IS EVIL WHEN IT CAN TAKE OVER YOUR MIND AND SOUL AND MAKE YOU CAHANGE FROM A LOVING, CARING HUSBAND TO A CHEATING BASTARD THEN WELL YOUR JUST SICK AND SHOULD SEEK HELP. I AM NOT SAYING ALL MEN DO THIS BUT I’M TELLING YOU WHAT IS NOTHING BUT THE HONEST TO GOD’S TRUTH (CHECK THE BIBLE) IF YOU PLAY WITH TEMPTATION YOU WILL GET BURNT. AND BY THE WAY HIS WIFE FEELS LIKE IT’S ALL HER FAULT CAUSE THEY NEVER HAD A COMPUTER AND SHE BOUGHT ONE FOR HER WORK AND HE TOOK IT OVER AND THEN THE PROBLEM GREW INTO A MONSTER.

Anonymous January 8, 2009, 7:56 PM

turn on the rauchier the better

Amber April 8, 2009, 12:58 AM

April, stop yelling. Take your meds. The bible doesn’t talk about porn changing men into raging sex addicts. Your friend has an addiction to sex. Not porn. I am a happily married woman. I like porn. Fantasy is good just don’t take it any where else. And wrong (I like that you are so adamant and proud of your views that you don’t sign your name) porn does not cause rape. Rape is about power not sex. I wish you all good sex. -Amber


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