Thinking about other men is actually a good thing.
Women who frequently drum up lusty thoughts report being highly sexually satisfied and have sex more often than women who don't think sexy thoughts. See, it's not "cheating," it's saving your relationship! Why? Experts believe people who fantasize are skilled at channeling their sexuality quickly, which leads to more frequent lovemaking.
If that's not enough to get your mind racing, then know this: One study from Rutgers University found when women fantasized, they experienced increased blood pressure, rapid heart rate, lubrication, and ultimately orgasm without even touching themselves. So go ahead and let your mind wander, Mama. But first tell us who you'll be thinking of... we won't tell!