Use this summer to prepare kids for transitions in the fall.

As the school year winds to a close and kids' attention turns to fun and sun, the last thing most parents are thinking about is starting up again in the fall.

But for families who are moving or switching schools next school year, here are some tips on how to use summer to prepare kids (and yourself) for the transition. Momlogic friend and parent educator Jill Spivack, LCSW, suggests that parents:

Break the news simply: Don't go into explanations about financial hardship or the fight you had with the principal. Parents should sit down with the kids and talk about it as a family. Spivack suggests this script: "We've found a wonderful new school, and we think this will be the best place for our family."

Empathize: Kids are likely to be sad, scared or angry to get this news. Validate them by saying something like: "I remember when I had to switch schools when I moved as a kid. It was really hard at first, and I was scared too, but then I made friends and it got easier."

Tour: Arrange to tour the school and visit the classroom now or before summer's end. See if you can set up a time to meet with the teacher as well. "Let them experience the classroom hands-on if possible."

Try summer camp: If the school offers this, sign your child up to help him or her acclimate.

Make new friends: Ask the school principal or director for a class roster, and see if you can get introductions to other families with kids in your child's class. Then, set up playdates with a few different kids. "Just knowing a couple of people will help kids feel more confident starting in a new school."

Keep old friends: If possible, continue playdates with friends from the old school. It lets kids know that just because they leave a school, it doesn't mean they leave all their friends behind.

For more information and parenting tips from Jill Spivack, visit her website.