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When a Game Turns Deadly

Wednesday, June 25, 2008

The "choking game" gains popularity among teens and tweens ... but sometimes kills.

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While her mom was out running errands last week, 11-year-old Deneathia Service decided to play "suffocation roulette" with her younger sister. The game cost Deneathia her life. When Service's older brother discovered her unconscious in the closet with a belt tied around her neck, it was too late. She was already dead.

Unfortunately, Deneathia is just the latest in a long list of victims. Momlogic talked to Sarah Pacatte, a mom who is all too familiar with the choking game and its deadly consequences. Her 13-year-old twin son, Gabriel, (pictured) died on May 6, 2005 while playing it. Sarah was just five feet away from him, right in the next room. "The choking game is something that kids hear about from other kids," says this mother of four. "They're told it will give them a high and that it's not dangerous. But the truth is, it kills."

And even if a child plays it and doesn't die, the list of other potential side effects is long. They include: bruises, concussions, broken bones, seizures, brain damage, retinal hemorrhaging, and even stroke. Because there's no standardized way to report deaths as a result of the choking game, it's hard to track exactly how many kids have died from playing it. The first government report of choking game fatalities found that 82 kids have perished from it since 1995, reported CBS News. But according to Pacatte, that figure is likely much higher, due to the fact that many of these deaths are actually reported as accidents, strangulation, hanging, or suicide. She says that since her son Gabriel's death three years ago, more than 300 kids have perished while playing the game.

Since her son's tragic passing, Pacatte works with a group called GASP (Games Adolescents Shouldn't Play) to educate parents on the dangers of the choking game. "Parents need to talk to their kids about the choking game, just as they would talk to their kids about any other dangerous activity like drinking or doing drugs." If you're worried you'll "put ideas into your kid's head," Pacatte says those ideas are already there. "Kids across this country are talking about this and doing it. This game goes by many names: Suffocation Roulette, Black Out, Pass Out, Choking, Fainting, Strangle, Flatline, California High, Wall Toke, Funky Chicken and Space Monkey, to name a few. Just punch in 'pass out game' into YouTube and you'll find hundreds of videos of kids doing this 'for fun'." (We just did this, and were alarmed to see that some of these videos have been viewed over 10,000 times.) "They all think nothing will go wrong," she concludes. "But they need to know the game can be deadly."

The Centers for Disease Control officials urge parents to be aware the fad exists, and to watch for possible warning signs like bloodshot eyes, marks on the neck, frequent and severe headaches, disorientation after spending time alone, and ropes, scarves or belts tied to bedroom furniture or doorknobs or found knotted on the floor. For more warning signs your child is playing the choking game, click here.

Our heart goes out to Sarah Pacatte, Deneathia Service's mom, and any other mother who has lost a child as a result of the choking game. We plan to talk to our tweens and teens about this tonight. What about you?



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YES I am absolutely going to talk to my 14 year old tonight. This is really scary.
- Anonymous
Posted 12/13/07 04:17 PM
 
When I was a kid, my sister’s best friend did this. I saw her collapse on a concrete floor, hit her head and go into convulsions. Thankfully, she recovered. This is a hideous game.
- Anonymous
Posted 12/14/07 12:17 AM
 
Thank you so much for posting this and informing parents. December 11th marked 3 years since the death of our 16 year old son from this “game”. We homeschool our children and you’d think our son would have been somewhat sheltered from knowing about this, but he still found out, “played” and died. His two younger brothers found him, which has been a difficult time of healing for them. Talk to your kids about this just as you would drugs, sex, strangers, etc. It’s my daily prayer that my son’s death will help save other kids’ lives.
- Loni
Posted 12/15/07 06:07 PM
 
Two years ago there was an 8th grader that died from playing this game. This was a terrible tragedy and it affected our whole little town and beyond.
- Lesley
Posted 02/14/08 08:41 PM
 
I’m 29 years old and I can remember kids doing something like this when I was 15. I’ve seen kids do it but never participated because I was scared…Thank God I was! My friends that would play this “game” would stand up against a wall while another would push against their throat until they got light-headed and then stop. I had no idea this was such a wide-spread thing that was still going on. My heart goes out to the families that have lost their children to this horrible game.
- Trish
Posted 02/18/08 09:52 AM
 
When I was a kid/preteen (late 80’s, early 90’s) I remember seeing an older kid in my neighborhood do this. This is nothing new but with information so easily exchangable these days, more and more kids are going to hear about the game. My son is only 3, but I will definitely talk to him about this when he’s alittle older.
- dixiegirl
Posted 06/25/08 11:14 AM
 
Stupid kids
- Anon
Posted 06/25/08 11:40 AM
 
It is impossible to warn our children against every stupid thing kids will try to do and in turn try to influence them to do. But what we can do is teach them to be independent thinkers. To have a moral compass. To think before they do. As parents that is our duty because if we don’t, they will grow up to be adults with the same impulse control/peer pressure issues. Talk to your kids about everything every day. If the relationship isn’t there on a daily level, they won’t listen when you sit them down for “an impotant talk” when in fact you don’t even know who their best friend is.
- calimom +3
Posted 06/25/08 12:33 PM
 
Wow this is one scarry article. My boys are too little still, but I will keep this in mind as they get older. I don’t remember doing anything like this when I was younger.
- dawntrenee
Posted 06/25/08 03:36 PM
 
I just googled this…it is so stupid. Some of the vids that i seen the kids were laughing at the person and even smacking them. They really do think its funny…they really do think its just a game. This is so sad…I will talk to my daugher about things like this now and she is only 6!
- Mom2Divas
Posted 06/25/08 04:36 PM
 
OMG! I am 17 years old and I could NEVER imagine doing that. I’ve never even heard of this before.
- Hellooooo
Posted 06/26/08 08:01 AM
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