Teen Mom Explains Pregnancy Pact

 

I am also a teen mother i got pregnant with my first son at age 16 and had my second a few weeks ago i am currently 18. I think that girls really do not understand what is is to raise a child. I really didnt know either but now that i know i try my hardest to talk to the young girls about what i went through and if they choose to have sexual intercourse that to be smart.

- Tanya

Posted 06/21/08 12:31 AM

 

 

if you got pregnant once, why did you let it happen again?!? it always amazes me when people make the same mistake twice. these girls should be slapped for being so stupid, but they’ll be in their own little hell when the babies come, the majority of the dad’s bail, and they see what being pregnant does to your body.

- mich

Posted 06/21/08 08:17 AM

 

 

Stupid girls…life/career everthing given up at such an early age I hope they suffer badly

- BadChoice

Posted 06/21/08 10:44 PM

 

 

it wasnt a mistake the only mistake was that i was too young but i love my kids and i wouldnt change it for the world. Haveing them made me a better person and i can say that now. You make your bed you have to lay in it. if you had a pregnant teen daughter would you want some one to tell her that she will suffer. Now that these girls are pregnant what can people do now whats done is done now people should help them become good mothers

- Anonymous

Posted 06/22/08 12:08 AM

 

 

I was pregnant with my first at 15, married her father, and had 3 by 20. My 15 year old daughter is now expecting, and I will be a 31 year old grandmother despite my trying to teach the opposite of what my mother did, and openly teach my children about safe sex, pregnancy, etc. I think teens, as I did, have this dreamy vision of bouncy smiling babies, and are not capable or just don’t sit and think about the diapers, colic, illnesses, loss of freedom, and setbacks on top of the huge financial and medical responsibilities a child will bring. Yes, you love them, but you give up your life when you bring another into this world. You are now living for that person. The guys, often just as young do not stick around. They get scared of the commitment, haven’t lived yet, and find out the responisibilities are so great they run like the young boys they are. You can’t really expect more. Once your pregnant, you have to start planning and thinking of every next step for you and the baby-alone-don’t count on anyone. There is help out there, but it is so hard. These girls are just thinking that it’s going to be so great and fun and they have these kids growing up together, etc. Have they thought that they will be so busy supporting them, and not having any time to get together, that most likely they will grow apart and hardly ever get to see each other? Then, they’ll look at the girls thier aghe who did not get pregnant, going out, having fun, dating, spring break, etc. and it will be too late for them. Stretch marks, stretched skin, used, that’s only the beginning of it.

- Connie

Posted 06/23/08 05:09 PM

 

 

Parents are so influential to their children’s lives…This is why parents need to teach kids to be understanding and tolerant. You can see that need on the show Baby Borrowers on tv. These teens are left to look after kids they barely know, and you can see the lack of patience and tolerance on their faces… dont be them, learn from them

- Gary

Posted 06/25/08 06:14 PM

 

 

Wow, all those young girls need to give there heads a shake!, big time!. It’s so sad when you hear and see all this happening, I hope in hell they all know who the fathers are and I hope they had explained this “Pregnancy Pact” with these guys befor having unprotected sex with them at the time. I think that all those girls in the “Pregnancy Pact” should go on that new T.V show Baby Borrowers and see how it is on the other side, they might be in for a HUGE shock.

- Natasha

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- buydrugs

Posted 09/10/08 11:23 PM

 

 

I can’t believe that teenage girls are so impressionable, that they could make a pact to change their entire lives. I was one the teen mother’s in highschool, but I made it a point to not be another statistic! I never recieved any gov’t assistance, I finished college, and I married the father of my child. I was a lot different than most teen moms, but I did have to work a lot harder than most people my age! Today I am successful and have a wonderful life and I owe it all to being a teenage mom! I think when life gives you challenges you should rise above them!

- Nicole

Posted 11/02/08 03:18 PM