Last week, women were glued to our five-part series "Who's Sleeping with Your Husband?"
We must have struck a nerve, because we've been getting hundreds of emails from women all over the country wanting to share their experiences as "the other woman" with us. We weren't shocked by what the women had to say, only with how honest they were. Here's a sampling of what these women had to say:
 | "I've known this man over 14 yrs. We hang out in the same circle of friends, 4 days a week most times. He came on to me a year ago. I was shocked yet flattered, and I went for it. Didn't realize that I would fall for him like I have. We had an off and on affair for a year. I adore his wife, but I never think about what I'm doing to her because it has nothing to do with her. It's just he and I and he's my pastor... OMG!!!! I lust for that man, it's ridiculous. What has happened to us.... LUST, LUST." |
| "I am proud (yes, PROUD!) to say I have been the lover to the same married man on and off for nearly 25 years. Sometimes we have split for as long as 6 years; the affair began as an office romance (he was married at the time; I was not) and continued through my own marriage. I have never, EVER wanted him to leave his wife/family, nor he wanting me to leave my marriage, and the subject has never even come up. We both get the emotional solace we need that is lacking in our respective marriages and the sex, while it used to be the direct focus of the affair early on, is still hot, hot HOT...but it seems to carry less weight in the affair overall 25 years down the road. We are currently back together after a couple year "hiatus." I love these cheating/affair surveys because I get the chance to tell everyone that not all affairs end up like "Anna Karenina," "Madame Bovary," or "Fatal Attraction." Successful affairs can be had IF BOTH PARTIES keep the affair in perspective, as an adjunct to one's own marriage. I do not think humans are meant to be monogamous creatures. The greatest thing I value in my own long-term affair is the mutual trust we have in each other and the knowledge that one is not going to ruin the other's marriage or life." |
| "They will destroy you emotionally, spiritually, etc. It's one perpetual lie after another. If you escape with your soul intact, consider yourself lucky. And It's true, if he lies to her he will lie to you. My guy was a serial cheater." |
| "I love having sex with men who are married. I feel in control, he feels grateful, it is hot and exciting. I never think of the wife or children or what would happen if the wife found out -- I think of the man as a loser, and I simply use him for my personal pleasure and gain." |
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How can we raise our daughters so they don’t turn into these women with no self respect, living nothing short of pathetic existences?
- Anonymous
@ the women with the 25 year lover: What kind of awful person gets married when they don’t believe in monogamy? I’m not saying there’s something wrong with not wanting to be monogamous and married. It’s a choice. But why would you marry someone and lie to them when the commitment means nothing to you? It’s cruel.
- Anonymous
I don’t think there’s anything wrong with not being monogamous, IF both parties in the relationship agree that they are going to be with other people. I think respect and honesty are missing when you are having sex with a person outside of your relationship and your partner doesn’t know. It’s really a horrible way to treat another person, not to mention all the possible consequences: STDs, pregnancy, stalkers, etc.
- Nicole J.
WOW!!! what is wrong with the world? i have been married for just over 6 years now, we have 2 little girls together, and when we said our vows, we ment them! to lie and cheat on your spouse is wrong in so many ways.. maybe its just me and my old fashion living or my faith in GOD, but when man and woman get married they are not to stray, and when the so called misstress is in the picture well that is not right in her part either.. and not all men cheat… i know a few that are committed to there family and no other woman.. sorry for ranting here but its so sad to see/read stuff like this..
- tracy
To the woman who is PROUD to be having a 25-year affair: You are the worst kind of hypocrite. If you are so PROUD of your affair, then why are you keeping it a secret? And if you don’t believe that humans, by nature, are not meant to be monogamous, then why isn’t your spouse aware of your affair? If you truly believed what you said, then you wouldn’t hide your actions for everyone else.
- April
sorry debrakay…hope you never find out but I will see patrick over and over…he’s so hot on his motorcycle and great in bed! You can ride me anytime..I love the ones that are taken!!!Gotta keep him happy:))))He’s my babydaddy!
- michiganbratt
DEBRAKAY??? What about the other women he’s sleeping with?..If he does it to her with you..he’s not happy with just one..PATRICK probably needs several.He’s your babydaddy?? Bet he has more with other women..and probably doesn’t support them.
- lisam
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