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Abusive Teacher Calls Student 'Ugly'

Wednesday, July 30, 2008
filed under: tween & teen logic

It's hard to believe a high school educator would kick or insult a child, but that's what happened to this 14-year-old girl. Hear her mom's side of the story.

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Recently, a Mount Miguel High School student was abused and humiliated by her teacher in front of the class. Her family is suing the school for $75,000 for pain and humiliation. In her first time speaking out, her mom Jena Ray talked to momlogic about the day she and her daughter will never forget.

Momlogic: How did you find out about what happened to Jade?

Jena Ray: When I got a call from Jade's vice principal, he told me she had come into his office crying because her teacher had kicked her. She had walked into chorus class where they were selecting students to deliver Valentine's Day grams and Jade asked why she wasn't picked to participate. Her teacher told her, "Look at you, you look a mess. And you're not wearing your shirt." Apparently, Jade didn't know she needed a special shirt so asked how much they were. When the teacher informed her they were $15, Jade said, "For those? They aren't worth $15.00."

The teacher got mad and said, "Get out of here!" Then, the teacher called her "ugly" and told her to leave. My daughter got up and started to walk out of the class, and suddenly felt a swift kick on her butt.  She turned around and realized the teacher had kicked her because she wasn't moving fast enough.  Her teacher then slammed the door in my daughter's face.

Momlogic: What was your reaction?

Jena Ray: I was furious -- I just couldn't believe it. The vice principal said he would look into the incident; however, my husband and I came immediately to get our daughter where we found her in the office, still crying. The teacher actually walked into the office and I asked her, "How could a teacher do this to a child?" She replied that she "just lost it".

Momlogic: How has this taken a toll on Jade?

Jena Ray: Jade didn't want to return to school -- she was humiliated, and even gained 25 pounds from stress. She became quiet and would lie in her room, isolating herself.  But she also became very defensive, arguing with her two sisters over everything.  The worst part is, she became very insecure about her appearance. I feel this incident ruined her self-esteem.

Momlogic: What do you want other moms to learn from your story?

Jena Ray: A mother should always try to get justice for her child. A zero-tolerance policy shouldn't be just for children but also for teachers who should be held accountable for how they treat students. I send my daughter to school for an education and she looks up to her teachers -- I'm afraid this could ruin her. The toughest part is watching my daughter go through this. I really hurt for her. She's now enrolled in a charter school and eventually wants to be back in a regular school, so we are working toward that.

We recently filed a lawsuit against the school district and the teacher involved because they never really did anything to rectify this. No one apologized to my daughter and to my knowledge, the teacher was never reprimanded.

Jade told me she couldn't believe it when she learned the teacher is also a mom herself, and asked me, "Mom, how could another mom treat her child like this?"



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25 comments so far | Post a comment now >>

 
What is happening to the public school system that something like this can happen. I think that maybe tougher and costly repremands should be implemented for cases like this.
- Ceci
Posted 08/06/08 02:23 PM
 
Why on Earth would anyone who doesn’t have a true love of children and the desire to nurture them want to be a teacher at all? Just to have summers off? That’s truly despicable.
- Dana
Posted 09/06/08 07:07 PM
 
She really is quite ugly though…
- j
Posted 02/10/09 02:55 PM
 
I know how you feel I had a similar incident when I was in 7th grade when I was dealing with this Racist teacher Mr. Carey he was racist he used to tell the Mexican people and black people you will never pass this course because I won’t give a fair grade to Mexicans and Black People also he told everyone he hated black and Mexican people my black buddies and I protested several times to have him dismissed he would kick the Mexican People out of class I left class several times crying because this teacher was a dickhead and needed to be slapped We complained to the special ed director and he didn’t like him either me and the black friends considered Mr. Waldrop as our friend because we had him for World History the prior year and he was a father figure to the whole class
- Michael Melvyn
Posted 03/09/09 01:54 PM
 
that teacher is ugly how dare she call the student ugly she reminds me of the devil witch herself Nancy Grace And Ann Coulter
- Michael Melvyn
Posted 03/09/09 02:04 PM

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