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Guest blogger: How girls' night is the answer to getting your groove back.


Who would've thought: The cure for a boring sex life? A night with the girls!

Yes, it's true. I got the kids to bed, kissed my hubby goodbye, and headed over to my girlfriend's house--a living room jam packed with 20 women who were just happy to be out, and a "passion party" consultant looking to make some extra cash. To be perfectly honest, the idea of child-free appetizers and a margarita was enough to get me to show up. I had no intention of pulling out the checkbook.

Back in our parents' day, it was Tupperware parties that got moms buzzing. But now, moms need more than plastic containers to get them going, apparently. According to, at least 10,000 passion parties are held nationally each month. Momlogic sexpert Julie Taylor, author of How to Be a Dominant Diva, told me these parties are a great way to expose everyday moms like me to passion props we're often just too embarrassed to go buy on our own. When exposed to these "toys" in a welcoming environment among friends, they become way more inviting and less intimidating. I promised to give her full details of the party upon my return.

The evening started with some mild girl talk, along with a presentation of products that promised to ignite the spark in the bedroom--lotions, candles and massagers of all shapes, sizes and scents--and those guaranteed to
strengthen my girl parts
. Frankly, I could buy all of those "romance" items at my local Bed, Bath and Beyond and I didn't need props to do my kegels. At that point, I was underwhelmed, and my curiosity was less than piqued. But hey, I'll take another margarita!

Soon, the games began, prizes were awarded and the big guns--and by big, I mean BIG--were pulled out. You could feel the energy change in the room. From self-serve toys to kinky accessories, the idea of having sex with my husband was definitely getting more interesting--even a bit exciting. When the questionaire was pulled out to determine who's had the juiciest sexual past--I actually won! (I'm not sure if that makes me interesting or just a reformed slut.)

Take the test for yourself and tell us your score!

Despite my earlier vow not to buy anything, I just couldn't resist. (And my husband was strangely OK during these budgeting times that I spent a little extra cash.) Then, I put my checkbook back in my purse, grabbed my parting gift--who doesn't love instant gratification?--and headed home to my man. While any other night after 11 p.m. means me crawling under the covers hoping for a full night's sleep--our night was just getting started.

I was exhausted the next day. But oh-so-very happy.

11 comments so far | Post a comment now
Amber July 7, 2008, 1:50 PM

My score was 120. That’s probably pretty lame. Oh well. :P

I go to Passion Parties all the time. At least every 3 months. They are a good time if you have a good consultant. Passion Parties have made my sex life a bit more adventurous.

Beckie July 7, 2008, 1:57 PM

I was a Passion Parties Consultant for years before my daughter was born, and I LOVED it! I always made sure my parties were tasteful and informative, while still being tons of fun. I loved giving women information about their own sexuality that their mom’s may have forgotten to mention.

I made quite a bit more doing that then I ever have selling kids books or plastic bowls, LOL!! And the best part was I know they were gonna go home and have fun with their partner, where as, no matter how many plastic bowls I sold, there was no telling if they were gonna actually cook ;0)

MEM July 8, 2008, 9:57 PM

I scored 225 on the test, I am not sure what is a good score or bad score? Anyway, I went to a party similar to one like this and I had a BLAST! At first I was very uncomfortable and embarrassed but quickly got over that and never laughed so hard in my life! I would even have one of these at my house if the opportunity came about.

Mom2Divas July 9, 2008, 11:12 AM

I got a 225. I think thats good, means i’m open to new ideas right? LOL. I’ve also had a party like this and not only is is GREAT to get out from the kids for a bit, its also something to chat about later with your girls and something that can really help in the bedroom. My husband and I visit our local “naughty shop” 1 or 2x a month, to the point where we know where everything is and what it does, the people that own it are constantly asking me to work But i’m happy just stopping in for some new stuff to play with. My husband and I have tried just about everything out there and are having fun, but we have just as much fun making love too. Thanks for the quiz, it was cute!

Kristen July 20, 2008, 7:40 PM

Hey ladies! LOL…I did a Google search and ended up HERE to read about this blog!
I AM a Passion Consultant, and I LOVE IT! I love to have fun also at these parties - and believe me, it is not *just* a business for me…it is ALSO a fun night out with some “new” friends and a chance for some “me time”. I am having just as much FUN as all the guests!!
If you want to know more or contact me for a party, email me at
I am in the Atlanta area - hope to get to add some Passion to your life!!

April September 7, 2008, 9:18 AM

I just became a Brown Bag Party consultant and I haven’t done any shows yet, but I am so excited! The people that I’ve talked to are so enthusiastic! It’s totally a great was to have fun with your girls! And have fun later with your guy!

Fate September 26, 2008, 2:11 AM

I have been doing Passion Parties for a long time and I am so glad I found this blog. I have been doing so well and having such a great time doing the Parties that I actually quit my job to enjoy life while I party part time.

If you have any questions or want to do a party or be a consultant email me at

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Trish January 10, 2009, 4:26 PM

I have been Passion Parties for a while and I must admit I joined for the excitement that it brings. I enjy getting out the house and meeting “New People who develop into friends”. I have 3 children and a husband. Passion Parties allows me the opportunity to take my family out to dinner, movies, plays and I have even purchased a SUV.

Not to mention my husband loves my Inner Diva.

Discover yours today. Contact Trish at to book your FREE party. Want to party and get paid, ask me how - become a consultant today. I’m here to help you.

alifool June 18, 2009, 11:44 AM

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Harold D. December 27, 2010, 1:58 PM

I always have a one big dream… I really would like to participate in meeting of various famous porn stars. Moreover, between them should be my favorite porn star Asa Akira (she is really a wonderful woman). Well, but it only a dream and I do not believe that it will come true one day. Anyway thanks a lot for the ability to express my thoughts.

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