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Secrets in the Suburbs: Mom's a Porn Star

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In week five of "Secrets in the Suburbs," we talk to Jamie, a 27-year-old mom of two--a 7- and 2-year-old--who spends her nights as an adult entertainer! 


Jamie revealed to momlogic that pizza delivery and telemarketing just weren't cutting it, so she became a webcam girl. And in just the past two years, became a porn star. She juggles her kids' school activities around shooting sex scenes--and you thought you had a lot to balance!

ML: How did you get into the adult entertainment business?
Jamie: I actually started as a maternity nude model. After I had my child, I started doing that again along with solo nudes and solo video. I was also doing webcam shows at the time. My fiancé was a car salesman at the time working 12 to 14 hours a day, 6 days a week and only bringing home maybe $3000 a month. We needed more money to support our growing family, so we agreed that porn would be a good idea for us. I got online one day and searched out adult agencies here. I found a couple that I liked and emailed them some pictures. The next day, an agency made me a good offer, and I was on a flight two days later. I flew from Texas to California and stayed out here for two weeks. It was hard being away from the family, but I made great money. I came home and helped pack things and we drove out for good a week later. We've been here for 2 1/2 years and I'm still in porn. My fiancé also made his way in and we are doing really well.

ML: When you worked as a webcam girl, were most of your clients married men?
Jamie: No, I would say half of my clients were younger guys from other countries and half were married men.

ML: How did you make the switch from webcam girl to porn star?

Jamie: I made the switch from webcam girl to porn star because webcam just wasn't enough for me. I wanted the money and the adventures you get from being a porn star. Plus after six months of doing webcam shows day after day, it gets a little boring. Although, I still do webcam shows in my spare time or on off seasons when companies aren't shooting as much, which is usually in the summer. I like the extra cash, and it's exciting when you're not doing it day after day.

ML: What was the most unusual thing you were asked to do as a webcam girl? And as a porn star?
Jamie: The most unusual thing I was asked to do as a webcam girl was a "pee" show, and I had to turn that down.The most unusual thing I've done as a porn star would be a movie that was all about milk enemas--now that was unusual.

ML: How do you balance being a mom and porn star?
Jamie: It's actually simple to balance being a porn star and a mom. I just have to watch what I wear and what I say around the kids!

ML: When you go to school activities with your children, do you tell the other moms what you do?
Jamie: My children have school functions every once in a while. I notice some guys will stare more than others, and I feel like they have most likely seen my movies. The moms, I think, are clueless. So when people ask what I do, I tell them I'm a trust fund baby, and on occasions I do a little modeling and leave it at that. There are times when I freeze up when people ask or when I go to greet someone I'll accidently introduce myself as Allison, which is my stage name. That makes for an awkward moment.

ML: Does your family know?
Jamie: When I began doing porn, I instantly told my mom and my two older sisters what I was doing. They laughed and joked about them wanting to do it too. I kept it from my dad, but he found out about a year into it. A friend of his told him he saw me on a Web site. My dad called me and was really upset. He's a farmer and very religious, so he didn't take it well. But he calmed down and he just accepts it now.

ML: What's the best thing about being a porn star? And a mom?

Jamie: The best thing about being a porn star is the money and the parties. The best thing about being a mom and a porn star would have to be the time I get to spend with my kids. I'm only at work maybe three times a week for just a couple of hours. The rest of the time I'm spending with my kids. It's great! I couldn't imagine working a lot and being away from my kids for many hours at a time.

ML: What's your schedule like?

Jamie: My schedule is kind of crazy, because I know my call time maybe a couple days ahead of time and sometimes last-minute. But I make sure to only work three days a week and my hours are very short. Shoots take from 1 hour to 4 hours. If it's a feature, it could take 12 hours, but they try to get you out as quickly as possible.

ML: Are there a lot of moms in the porn business?

Jamie: Yes, actually I have met a lot of moms in the business. They like it because of the money and the short hours. If you're a single mom, it's great and an easy way to take care of your kids financially.

ML: When they're old enough will you tell your children what you do for a living?
Jamie: Well, I've met a lot of older people that have been in the business for years that have kids and grandkids. They told their kids what they did for a living and their children seem pretty normal. So, yes when my kids get to the age where they would understand, I will tell them what I do.

The next time you see that hot mom carting her kids around, you may think twice when she tells you she's in the "service business" or a "trust fund baby," because she could be the one entertaining your husband at night! Don't miss week six of "Secrets in the Suburbs."

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40 comments so far | Post a comment now
Anonymous July 11, 2008, 10:15 PM

As a single mom you are making it work!

Anon July 11, 2008, 10:20 PM

Why doesn’t she just get a real job?

princesspeachfan2008 July 12, 2008, 4:21 AM

get real porn star mommy! its like your still 22, wake up! you have your children and you don’t want them to rape other children too! find another job, perhaps being an actress. Ok, if the porn mother becomes an actress, she gets more bucks n’ fans without the porn part. She should be an actress instead(in non-porn shows and movies)

bill July 12, 2008, 4:55 AM

do you do outcall? or incall too? first it’s webcam then porn next prostitution then your found dead as a street walker at 43 mom the hooker lotsa luck with that !

MEM July 12, 2008, 9:57 AM

Ugh! Are you kidding me? She’s not even that cute!! And what does her dopey husband think about all this? Does he really like banging her after she’s had all these men up in her coochie? If so, he is just as disgusting. If he has half a brain, he’d get DNA tests for those kids.

Mom2Divas July 12, 2008, 1:46 PM

Seriously? Who are you people to judge?! “Get a real job” It is a real job, if you dont like it…dont do it! Supply and Demand girls, there is a demand for these type of services…she is just taking care of that. I dont see the big deal, its not like she is showing her kids how. They can make their own choices later in life. And what the H*LL does this have to do with her kids raping other kids? You people are simple minded and pathetic women. Grow up and realize that as women we are no longer required to be in the kitchen…ITS OUR BODY AND WE CAN DO WHAT THE F*CK WE WANT WITH IT! Seriously girls, why dont YOU get real…

P July 13, 2008, 9:02 AM

A real bad choice! No one will eve respect you or your kids! Your kids will be looked down upon by others and carry a reputation, whether or not they are in it. That’s just the way it goes. No respectable person will encourage this ehavior. In my eyes you are a pig and should be checked for dieases! Where is your pride?? You are an “oinker” and unfortunatly your children WILL suffer no matter what YOU say!

P July 13, 2008, 9:05 AM

You are a pig in my eyes and your children WILL suffer because of your behavior!!!

Lee July 13, 2008, 9:58 AM

There are more important things in the world then the love of money.

anonymous  July 13, 2008, 1:21 PM

anyone know her porn name - Allison…? Her website? She looks good to me.

angie July 13, 2008, 3:34 PM

Honestly I am 21 and a mother of 3 already I don’t make enough only 13 an hour and if I had the option to do it and /or the means I would definetly do porn. No one has the right to judge because only god can. The only difference is if I had a man in my life I wouldn’t do it… . But she and her family are happy so I most def can not blame her.

Centella July 13, 2008, 4:54 PM

Dang! That sure is a Suburban Secret. I knew that had to be more going on then what the media projects.

Dan July 17, 2008, 3:41 AM

Looks like most of the people who read this site are religious farmers. Shame on them. More power, Allie.

Jessica  July 24, 2008, 1:07 PM

I’ve gotta say, I would do just about anything to spend more time with my daughter. I’m a single mom barely getting by, I only get to spend a few hours a day with her. I do have mixed feelings on how it affects children though. As long as they don’t get too greedy to the point where they can’t see or don’t care about how it affects there children, while they’re young I guess, why not? Really though, who am I to judge?

Lisa July 25, 2008, 10:05 PM

Have any of you ever read the Bible? Read God’s word! I am not judging you or anyone like you but God is, right now and for all eternity! That’s all that needs to be said! You cannot dispute the word of GOD!!!!!!!

essam August 23, 2008, 6:40 PM

first it’s webcam then porn next prostitution then your found

Connie  August 30, 2008, 9:36 PM

Ummm, ewwwww!!! I don’t care how broke I am. Milk enemas?? Really?????

K. Cleaver September 8, 2008, 12:37 PM

…and I’m sure your children will be PROUD to go with mommy to work on “take your children to work” day.

keells September 13, 2008, 1:04 PM

I hope your children don’t find out the hard way (like at school from their peers). They are the ones this will have to pay for your behavior choices.

georges  October 9, 2008, 9:50 PM

I am a 34 year old french musician, my mom was one of the most famous porn actresses of the early seventies. i knew since i was 15 and it was never a problem for me. it was thanks to porn that she was able to raise me and give me a good education !

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