
Why would a child murder his parents?
Recently, 15-year-old Nicholas Browning confessed to killing his entire family in their Baltimore home. According to reports, he used his father's 9mm gun to execute his mother, father, and two younger brothers (ages 14 and 11) while they slept, then returned to a friend's home to play Xbox after ditching the gun in the woods.
Nick confessed to the killings after telling police he was angry with his father for lecturing him and removing his car privileges for one week.
To his community, Nick Browning seemed like a cheerful well-adjusted boy. He played on his high school's varsity golf team, was a Boy Scout leader, and honors student who played the cello.
Although shocking, this isn't the first time children have murdered their parents:
Just this week, a 12-year-old boy killed his mother in their Douglas, Ariz., home after having a dispute over household chores. The boy's name isn't released yet, but he will possibly face first-degree murder charges.
In the 80s, there was the famous case of the Menendez brothers who plotted and carried out the murder of their parents, after agreeing their father was abusive to their mother. They reasoned if they killed their father, they'd have to kill their mother so she wouldn't turn them in.
Jacob Brighton, 16, killed his parents because he felt like a "disappointment." He told police he shot his dad three times in the back, then shot his mother while she ran away. Brighton faces a possible sentence of life in prison if convicted.
Matthew Hackney, a 17-year-old who was sent home from school for being drunk, shot his parents and grandmother to death, then died in a car crash. Matthew, who had never been in trouble before, was reportedly scared he'd get disciplined for failing a drug test.
Sarah Johnson, 18, shot her parents to death when she was 16 years old in their Idaho home. She was reportedly angry with her parents for disapproving of her boyfriend.
What is happening to children?
"Murdering one's parents is a very specific type of rage," says Jane Greer, Ph.D., a family therapist in New York City. "You're literally cutting off your lifeline, the people who brought you into this world. It usually stems from feelings of retaliation, resentment, and animosity."
"Sometimes, one incident can cause a kid to snap but there's usually a build-up of events," she says. "Teens say 'I hate you, I wish you were dead!' but to act on their fantasies, you're then dealing with someone who has no impulse control."
What's more, she adds, often times after killing one parent, the teen panics and tries to cover their tracks. "It's common for someone to murder the rest of their family after killing one member," she says. "The thinking is, 'If I kill everyone, there will be no one to turn me in.'
Greer says as children enter their teens, they haven't fully developed the ability to reign in bad behavior. But that's not to say every parent should worry--in fact, most shouldn't because these cases are rare. Being sullen, snappy, and disconnected from the family are characteristics of every kid in America. So how do you know when you really have a problem?
"Most parents believe their kid would never harm them, but the victims also thought that too," Greer says. "Parents believe their children are loyal to them, but by encouraging your kid to be open about his social life, he'll be less likely to behave secretively and vulnerable to outside influences."
"This issue hasn't been studied enough to form a profile for a teen killer, but we do know that kids who disconnect with their parents, have no impulse control and anger issues are more susceptible to killing," she says. "Trust your gut and get your kid counseling if you're concerned."
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So sad how twisted we’ve become! How come we don’t ever see this in other cultures?
I realize that what I’m about to say isn’t a cure all for this but it IS part of the problem - violent tv shows and video games. My nine year old is always telling me about games and shows and movies his friends talk about and I am always shocked they’ve been allowed to see/play them. Some of the movies they have seen are too gruesome for me to watch. There are plenty of shows, movies and games for kids to play without the violence. I mean, where did their innocent childhoods go?? What about magic and Santa and the tooth fairy? Does anybody do that stuff besides me anymore? My nine year old is in advanced classes and going into fourth grade and he still believes in Santa. Other mothers can’t believe it, they think it’s wrong and I don’t understand that attitude. My son is smart, independant, creative, aware of social issues and likes to volunteer. I don’t think allowing him to be a child and retain his innocence stunts his growth in any way.
Well, I’ll get off my soap box. The point it, this kind of stuff is always on the news and no one seems concerned. I’m worried about what kind of world I’ll be sending my son out into.
This comment is in regards to Kaden’s statement, “How come we don’t see this in other cultures?” Now, I can’t state an example of one child somewhere killing his whole family, but I can state the many horrific and unfair killings of women throughout the world because of “honor.” If that is not seeing this in other cultures, I don’t know what is. You also have to take into account the media portrayal and availability of the information in our society. How many places in remote India have a TV station or news outlet? How many places in Sudan have the same? Our society has issues as every society does - but we have an advantage to most societies…WE ARE FREE! We have the ability to communicate with others ways to change and have the freedom to do so. We also have the freedom to report these types of acts - you won’t find this kind of information made readily available in China because the propoganda there is that everything is sunny and peaceful!
Before you ask why this doesn’t happen elsewhere, think about WHY we don’t hear it…is it not happening? Or is the information just not made available to us?