Can Cheating Save Your Marriage? (page 3)
Wednesday, September 3, 2008
Continued from Can Cheating Save Your Marriage?
We spoke to a few of his satisfied clients on why men cheat--according to a new study, some men are just plain wired to stray--and how you can detect the signs. (We wish we knew what these men look like, too!) Here's what they had to say:
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Riff, 45, married 22 years, father of three "When I proposed to my wife, I knew I couldn't stay faithful." |
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Chris, 40, married 10 years, father of two "I guess, as I grew older, I just became attracted to other women, plus it didn't help that more and more women were noticing me." |
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Mark, 41, married 17 years, father of three "I never thought I'd stay faithful, even when I married my wife, because all men cheat." |
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- dave
My husband hasn’t been satisfying me… so I am cheating with a WOMAN!
- Finally Happy!
The Ashley madison Site is for LOSERS and DEADBEATS. They all should be shot!!
- ASP
Encouraging cheating is really pathetic. Cheating is a dangerous game, and too often, the culprit brings a disease home to the person that they ‘love,’ and then everyone suffers. It is ok to look, but not ok to touch when you commit yourself to a lifetime by someone’s side. It is cruel to act on temptation ~ cruel for the spouse and especially cruel on the children. This website is a disgrace.
- trust worthy
Cheating is a purely selfish act. If u really loved someone, then u would deny your own lustful desires and consider how cheating would affect your significant other. Love is not selfish. Afterall, love is about giving, not recieving. Seems like some people have gotten married to people they don’t truely love?
- Wizard
Fuuuckkked up…’nuff said
- Anonymous
I might understand a young married college couple cheating on one another, but people with families who claim they don’t want to leave their spouses? It just doesn’t add up, if you don’t want to leave your spouse then why not figure out a way to spice things up? Instead of spending money on an affair why not re-invest it in your current relationship? I don’t understand how this guy thinks he is morally doing the right thing yet says he would be crushed if his wife did that to him. He must not be a very empathetic person then.
- Brandon
once a cheater, always a cheater!!! men wont tolerate their wife cheating on them but they expect us to tolerate it from them!!!!!! very immature!!!!!!!!
- anonymous female
Thanks to Slick Willy and his “I never had sex with that woman” horseshit, this scumy, liveralized, laughingstock of a country has become tolerant of low morals. Personally, I would like to see this country divided in two: Libs and Repubs. It is an idea whose time is OVERDUE; let’s face it.
- Tunsis
i have an AM account. I am a middle-aged, married woman. I never paid for my account, it worked very well anyway. I no longer need to use it. I was bombarded by married men…all of them unhappy with their sex life at home. Wives - please take care of your husband’s physical needs. It’ not an option for you to say no. It destroys their self-esteem, and is quite Possibly the cruelest thing you can do to your man. If you don’t, someone else will, so don’t be surprised, it’s all your fault. It is. Period.
- me again
Tunsis - your comment is without any basis in fact. Low morals is a concept that does not hold water. Face reality, spouse cheat because they can not get what they need from their partners. You can vote all you want, but some things will NEVER change.
- me again
I just don’t understand cheating. If someone wants “variety,” then go get it, but end it with your spouse/sig. other first. Go sow your oats, but leave the other innocent party whom you have proclaimed to love, OUT of it. It’s really cruel. It’s so much more than the physical betrayal; it’s the emotional betrayal in connecting with someone other than your spouse. This is a complete disgrace!! When men say “we men have to cheat..blah blah” it’s a complete idiotic EXCUSE to do whatever they want without accountability. What makes these men think they are exempt from accountability? It’s a just a disgrace! I do agree with marital communication and meeting your partners’ needs, in and OUT of the bedroom, but honestly, if one feels the need to cheat, leave your partner. That pain will be less than the pain of complete betrayal!!!!
- Anonymous Lady
Amen to that Anonymous Lady!!!
- No kidding!
I don’t know which sickens me more, the guy making money off this site or the people who use it. Saying that cheating is genetic is the same as saying that self control is genetic. Clearly, people who choose to cheat, choose to not exibit self control. Marriage doesn’t mean you stop finding others attractive. Commitment to marriage means you don’t ACT on it out of consideration for your spouse’s feelings and because you make a promise to be faithful. Wow…I thought I had heard of everything…. this is really really sad.
- happywife
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