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Casey Anthony: Caylee's a 'Little Snot Head'

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Casey Anthony calls Caylee "the little snot head" in instant messages to her ex. Read the shocking transcripts.

Casey Anthony

We're getting a look at instant messages Casey Anthony sent to ex-boyfriend Tony Rusciano. In the IMs, Rusciano never calls Casey's three-year-old daughter Caylee Anthony by name, only referring to her as "the offspring." Casey, in turn, callously calls Caylee "the little snot head." Check out the transcripts.

May 3, 2008

9:13 p.m. casey o marie: I'm going crazy over here.
9:13 p.m. casey o marie: I'm online so I can stay awake.
9:13 p.m. casey o marie: At least the kid is passed out.

9:28 p.m. casey o marie: brb
9:28 p.m. casey o maraie: Checking on the kid

On May 6, Casey sends an astounding 198 IMs to her boyfriend from 1:39 p.m. to 7:42 p.m. And this is while Caylee was HOME!

On May 6, 2008, at 1:44 p.m., Casey says her nanny is en route.

nyitaliano3: so is she willing to get the offspring?
casey o marie: as of right now
nyitaliano3: geez
casey o marie: brb
casey o marie: caylee wanted pizza

They chat for another fifteen minutes, mainly about their sex lives. Then, at 2:04 p.m.:

nyitaliano3: Where'd you go freakshow
casey o marie: hey asshole
casey o marie: caylee wanted more lunch

At 2:08 p.m.:

casey o marie: I have a headache
casey o marie: What the hell should I eat?
nyitaliano3: come over i'll cook
casey o marie: ha, want me to bring the little snot head?
casey o marie: didn't think so.
nyitaliano3: I mean when she is occupied by another adult
casey o marie: ha ha
casey o marie: i know

at 4:31 p.m.:

casey o marie: i feel like I have cabin fever
casey o marie: I'm ready to chew my arm off
ny italiano: why
casey o marie: I'm going stir crazy sitting around here

She gives Tony a litany of excuses of why she can't come over ... mainly running commentary about her nanny's whereabouts and her being a no-show.

Then, at 7:20 p.m.:

casey o marie: I'm sad. I've been sad all day. shit, I've been sad for days.

Ironically, at 7:37 p.m., she says:

casey o marie: you know what you're getting into with me, and i'm sorry, caylee has to come first, my job, a close second. i can only take so much time from that for anything else.
nyitaliano3: I understand but understand my point. i can't see someone once every 3+ weeks and say we're dating.

Click here to read the entire IM history. (Warning: Explicit!)

What do you think of Casey's behavior?

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103 comments so far | Post a comment now
Jane October 20, 2008, 2:18 PM

Moms can get depressed and feel like they have cabin fever. So, her IM-based outlets of frustration are understandable.

However, this does not make murder excusable. If she wasn’t ready to be a mother, she had several options - one of them being adoption.

Alicia October 21, 2008, 9:03 PM

Why in the h#*! is there an ad for “sexy” kids costumes on the side of the article? Anyone else disturbed by this?

oh yeah and Casey, disgusting

jess October 22, 2008, 12:38 PM

Don’t get me wrong, I think she’s probably guilty, only time will tell. But I call my 3 year old son a ‘little fart head’ but it’s only jokingly. Infact its usually when he’s acting really cute that I say that. It’s a term of endearment. I guess you have to be a parent to understand.

Morning October 22, 2008, 10:27 PM

I think this is a sad depiction of a frusted mom. Unfortunately, it is being excused as normal or dry witt. The truth is we should all look at the role of a mother and realize how depressing, unsatisfying, and dangerous it can be. Yes, this transcript seems very normal, even to me, but we should be talking about changing the unspoken role of mothers if this really is common.

Dana November 29, 2008, 3:09 PM

In all honesty the things she is saying are not incriminating… but I truly believe it was all apart of the a plot… at fisrt I thought maybe it was an accident but as more and more was being revealed to the public that’s when I realized we were dealing with a psycopathe… this girl is not crazy she is perfectlly fine but she is not humble and sincere like the rest of us…

ashlee December 9, 2008, 6:19 PM

Alot of people call their kids names in a joking way and wouldnt do anything to hurt them at all. SHE DID SAY TO HIM “CAYLEE COMES FIRST” I think she was trying to blow him off and stuck in the house with Caylee, board. Ive talked to people online that I really dont feel like talking to and type brb all the time when im doing something or watching tv…but def/ sounds like she was blowing him off had no interest.

Rachel December 13, 2008, 12:20 AM

Hey idiots….
You might want to look up what the word “Christian” means. I sure hope none of you call yourselves one. Hypocrites and bigots at worst.
This may have been an accident. You don’t know that, do you. Casey could have panicked and told a lie. You’ve never done that before in your life…have you. One lie led to another. But you’ve never ever lied, have you.
An accident happened. Casey got caught in a lie. She panicked. No one, including people reading more than is actually there, is actually listening to her, are they.
You all read something in transcripts that wasn’t even there. You looked for and found the worst. Others just read it for what it was and saw nothing.
Which one is the real Christian? It isn’t you idiots.
Think about it.
I look up Arsnic on line. I call my kids pet dorky names. There is nothing wrong with me. But there for the GRACE of God go I. One blameless accident and we already know how horribly you would be accused now too, don’t we.

Ann December 13, 2008, 2:37 AM

I am a teacher and a mother of 3 sons and have never referred to them as “snot heads”. I struggled with the pressures of having small children; however, I knew that I had a responsibility to do what was right for them and not me, and therefore sacrificied my own wants and desires. Come on people; she is a socialpath who most likely was involved in the death of her daughter and is now trying to lie her way out of it; remember OJ? I have read her police interviews; 99% of what she said has been proven to be a lie. Raising children is hard work and I understand the frustration of not “having a life”. That’s why parenthood ideally should be plannned and wanted.

M December 13, 2008, 1:22 PM

God be with them all.

Anonymous December 13, 2008, 5:34 PM

All anyone has to do is look at the picture of that little girl, and you can see something is seriously wrong in that childs’ life. Her eyes are always so sad, and so aged; like she has been through too much. I would have to say; abused in some way.

Anonymous December 13, 2008, 5:37 PM

I can’t believe how some people defend these little “white lies”…a child is MISSING! Is being a mom these days this slack and irresponsible?

Anonymous December 13, 2008, 6:08 PM

Someone should look into (Rachels) comments next. I don’t understand how “being a good Christian correlates with forgiveness in killing your child ‘on accident’” Regardless, we are told as Christians to pay for our wrong doings by the law of the land. Doping up your child and then skanking about aren’t exactly “Strong Motherly Christian Values”. Maybe she will have a long time in prison to figure out the entire “Christian” way. I do know that if it were my child, I would have talked to them at least three times a day when she was with “zanny”…nicknamed after Zanex? What a nice name to be called if she were really a person. Casey is self involved and a very spoiled individual. The only suffering she probably ever had to do in her life was in her opinion to “become a mother”. Anyone who feels that way shouldn’t be a mother. I think we should all be frightened if she walks away unscathed by what has happened. I know I would feel the world a much safer place with a girl like this locked up.

Anonymous December 13, 2008, 6:29 PM


elle J December 13, 2008, 9:31 PM

It’s not what Casey said in the text messages before she went’s what she didn’t say #1 “Hey Help My Child is Missing”…after the fact that is really in question..or more like what she did say….like #2 all the bull crap lies. If she knew her child was missing should she party - NO - … If she knew her child was missing would she be compelled to help investigators find her - YES…Did she do any of the above? NO. Everything about Casey Marie Anthony’s actions in the weeks following her daughters’ disappearance said all that ever needs to be said. She is guilty as sin for the death and disposal of her own child.

Anonymous December 13, 2008, 9:41 PM

Casey Anthony is low life scum who never should have been able to have children. Yes, I believe she premeditated and killed her daughter for her own selfish reasons. May she burn in hell and be tortured by inmates in jail. Anyone who kills a child doesn’t deserve to be called a person . let alone a human being.She is something we all step over or discard. TRASH! I originally felt sorry for her parents, but now believe they know the truth and should stop making excuses…Do they know how stupid they look, or are they exactly that? STUPID.Her parents are a joke.

Carina December 13, 2008, 10:03 PM

I am a mom and I have absolutely never referred to my children as snot heads, not even in my most agitated moments. Nor do I see any other moms calling their kids derogatory names. I suspect this is because most people I know wait until their 30’s to have children, so that are better equipped to handle their emotions. If you don’t have the maturity to handle your anger better, you shouldn’t be a parent yet, period. Too bad you don’t have to have a license to become a parent, similar to the way you need one to drive a car.

yankhadenuf December 14, 2008, 5:11 PM

This convo proves nothing, in fact it backs up Casey’s story that she has a nanny (since May anyways!) If her finger-prints are on the remains , she is screwed, but even then they would have to prove homicide and not an accident.

Anonymous December 14, 2008, 10:16 PM

I can’t open the chat log file?? Tried to download and save but it’s not working to open it!

Anonymous December 17, 2008, 8:46 PM

she knows the truth is coming, she lies because she has had good teachers

LK December 19, 2008, 3:26 PM

More attention and facilities (talk lines, meetings with other, free councelling/ psychologist/ psychiatrist services) needed for single parents who maybe can’t afford it or have nobody to really talk to. Sometimes, having grandparents to help is not enough. More mental health services needed and awareness of mental health!

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