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Single Sex School's Fine for Girls, Not for Boys

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Momlogic's Yvette: Let me start by saying I'm all for all girl's schools -- I happen to be the product of one. Sure, I hated the uniforms -- but there's no doubt in my mind that my all girl's education helped made me who I am today ... strong, confident and competitive (sometimes too much if you ask my husband).

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That said, my plan is to have my daughter follow in my kilt-clad footsteps. I know the experience will empower her and help her grow into an amazing and exceptional young lady. Well ... that and the fact that she won't be distracted by horny and hormonal pubescent boys in the classroom.

Now my little guy ... not so much. Call me sexist, call me old-fashioned, call me crazy -- but for my little man, it'll be a co-ed education all the way. Every time I say this out loud, people give me the evil eye -- as if I just took feminism back 50 years or so. Let's get one thing straight -- this has nothing to do with feminism or favoritism or any other -ism you want to throw at me. This is about a mom who wants the best possible education for her children -- both inside and outside the classroom.

I happen to feel that girls can benefit greatly from a single sex learning environment where they can focus more on their work and less on that cute football player in algebra. These schools help girls work together and bond instead of inciting competition for that same cute football player's attention. I feel it's important for these girls to be socialized outside of the classroom -- just not in it.

Now boys (on the other hand) are an all together different story. I grew up with a brother and dozens of friends who went to all boys school. While they're perfectly charming adults -- all mostly married and gainfully employed, I can't help but think they all would have benefited from having girls around a bit more. I want my son to excel in school, play sports and yes, even share jokes and locker room antics with his buds. But I also want my son to respect girls and see them as friends, not just objects to oogle and brag about. That element, sadly, is what I fear is missing in many all boys environments.

So you see, while my plan is to educate my kids differently -- in the end -- I want the same thing for them. To grow into the amazing, strong, self-confident and kind young adults I know they'll be.


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22 comments so far | Post a comment now
Kyanna May 21, 2011, 2:21 AM

AFAICT you’ve ceoevrd all the bases with this answer!

Luella May 22, 2011, 9:36 AM

It was dark when I woke. This is a ray of snushnie.


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