Childlessandlovinit says: To spice up your relationship, here are some things you may have forgotten. From me to you ...
Before you judge and say: "Pfft. Why would we take relationship tips from a SINGLE GIRL?" let me clarify -- I am very envious that you are married and I am not. Let's just get that fact out of the way. But. I AM in a very happy (yet young) relationship, and although I will soon be where you are all at (complaining that a single girl is giving me relationship advice) I want to remind you what you used to do: When you still wanted to marry him, when you still liked him, when sleep wasn't more important than sex. And before you completely judge me, one of my girlfriends, the one who balked the loudest when I gave her my tips, secretly tried one. Needless to say, she called me screaming the following morning saying I saved her marriage. I certainly wouldn't go THAT far -- maybe I just encouraged some debauchery for one night ... which is better than most nights, right?
My five single girl tips for the married woman (which better lead to a ring ... soon!):
1.Write him: Put a letter in his suitcase, briefcase, wallet -- anywhere. Tell him how much you love him, how great of a husband he is, or remind him of your first date. It sounds cheesy, but he'll love it.
2.Send naughty pictures: No, you don't have to wait until you lose 5lbs -- trust me, your guy wants to see you in a pair of sexy panties. And you don't need a digital camera -- take one with the phone and send it to his phone right in the middle of the day. Just do it.
3.Let him wait: Remember when you first started dating and you were playing hard to get? It keeps the mystery, the "what if" alive. As soon as he begins to question where you are and what you're up to, he'll call and call. Guys like the chase -- it doesn't matter if you're married or not.
4. Go on a Date: Like you used to: Get dressed up, do your hair, wear something sexy and flirt with each other, hell, maybe even flirt with the bartender. Have a few cocktails -- fun!
5. Have sex in the middle of the night: Staying up for one night isn't going to kill you. Make tonight's priority sex, not sleep. And do it in the middle of the night -- like you used to.