Tips for Married Women ... From Your Single Friend

 

You guys want to know something. This chick is right!!! My parents have been married for 29 years, they are both in there early 50’s and they have an awesome marriage. MY MOM DOES ALL OF THESE THINGS!!! She still acts like a giddy school girl when he is coming home from work. It used to disgust me but now I think it’s amazing. And they still hump like rabbits. So seriously, take this advice.

- ashley

Posted 10/11/08 08:44 AM

 

 

Love these ideas! It’s so easy to get caught up in the daily grind of being married, but we also have to remember to nurture our marriage!

- Natalie

Posted 10/11/08 08:44 AM

 

 

I agree with most of it and I do most of those things. I dont think however in all cases letting him wonder where the heck you are is okay with all personality types. For some that may actually cause problems.(same with flirting with the bartender) but yeah she is spot on with the rest of it.

- Jenny

Posted 10/11/08 08:52 AM

 

 

I agree with everything she said…and I do all of them. She’s 100% right.

- Hollie

Posted 10/11/08 11:15 AM

 

 

Be careful with #2. I sent one to my hubby and he put it as a picture to pop up when I call him. Well I called him and one of his co-workers picked up…..it was a little embarrassing.

- geen

Posted 10/11/08 11:18 AM

 

 

Yes! You must remember what you were like when you were dating…always learning about each other and keeping the flame going. Just because you “caught” him doesn’t mean you should stop all of the wonderful things you did to catch him. And the same goes for hubby!

- Carrie

Posted 10/11/08 12:59 PM

 

 

this lady is right on the money im currently seperated from my hubby and these things are exactly what he was asking for. I couldn’t understand why he was demanding more than what i was giving him but after reading this i guess this all not that crazy. Hope these things work at getting him back and keeping him interested!

- brenda

Posted 10/11/08 03:03 PM

 

 

These are kinda cheesy! I didn’t do these when we were dating and totally over our heads in-love with each other. I’d say, instead, invest in babysitters! Go on vacations, to concerts, happy hour (remember getting tipsy together?) Also, meet for lunch, coffee, or join a gym together. These are the things that made life exciting before the kids came. Heck, paint the house together, another thing we used to do before kids was projects around the house together. I’m not saying don’t have sex or be sexy, but be together the way you used to be. It will be sexier and more emotionally satisfying rather than naked pics, or midnight/exhausting sex!

- morning

Posted 10/11/08 06:00 PM

 

 

I love these because they’re SO easy and eventhough at first glance you may go “no!” i think just trying it is worthwhile and shakes things up, for the better, in a relationship. I had one failed relationship, largely because we didn’t work at keeping the spark alive. Now i know better-but it never hurts to be reminded. I’m going to do one of these per week. He’ll love it. Even if HE doesn’t, I will love it. He better pay for dinner though. haha

- jackie

Posted 10/11/08 07:32 PM

 

 

i was in a failed relationship largely because we stopped doing this stuff. Thank you for the much needed reminder, I think we all get sooo caught up we forget but it’s so important. i’m going to do one of these per week. Send MORE!

- jackie

Posted 10/11/08 07:34 PM

 

 

Everytime before mydad got home from work, my mom put blush on her cheeks-so funny but true… 40 years later, she still gets giddy when he calls ‘ohhh it’s your daddd’—it’s unbelievable. They’re still totally in love, i think it’s due to the fact that they did these things.. really cute and a great inspiration.

- lisa

Posted 10/11/08 07:35 PM

 

 

I just got engaged 2 months ago believe me she’s right I did and still do all those things plus cook :)

- Me!

Posted 10/12/08 10:32 PM

 

 

and some things HE can do… put the toilet seat down bring flowers randomly tell us we’re beautiful and hot take us to that dinner we’re dressing up for tear our clothes off when we get home from that dinner tell us we”re beautiful and hot

- bree

Posted 10/13/08 10:56 AM

 

 

Ah YES….Each of these five points would bring a smile to any husband’s face. We have been married for nearly three years. Since that time, the notes have ceased; we haven’t been on a date in over a year; pictures are out of the picture and I am still “waiting” for the next time we have sex in the middle of the night. I want my girlfriend and lover back who I married nearly three years ago.

- CJ

Posted 10/14/08 06:21 PM