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Think Guys Only Want Sex? Think Again

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Newsflash: Your guy isn't thinking about you naked.

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If your sex life has been less then stellar lately thanks to a new baby, job stress, or plain old lack of time, and you're worried your man is suffering, get this: Men rate family life and good health above a satisfying sex life.

Yup, that's right: Men aren't fantasizing about hitting the sheets 24/7. According to the study of 28,000 men published in an upcoming issue of "The Journal of Sexual Medicine" men feel the quality of their marriage is way more important than having a sizzling sex life.

Here's a breakdown:

•1/3 of guys say being healthy is the most important factor.
•26% value a happy family.
•19% say they most value being in a good relationship.
•Only 2% placed a satisfying sex life as their top priority.

Who knew your man was so sensitive?

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4 comments so far | Post a comment now
CJ October 14, 2008, 5:58 PM

If a satisfying sex life is the number one priority in your relationship, you have built your “house” on shifting sand. A satisfying sex life IS an important priority, regardless of where it falls in the pecking order. But it cannot be NUMERO UNO. A great relationship is based upon communication on topics both good and bad. It is also based on considering your partners feelings first before yours. Try it sometime. Doing so will take you much further in the long run than satisfying your own in the short term.

scared October 15, 2008, 12:59 AM

it hurts when they say you only want sex but ……. may be …… one thing is what i can diclose 2 u about men that they never say that they got hurt …… they try to hide thier pain …….. cuz they hav to bear what comes alone ……… they dont have a support but ……… may be cuz men deserve that pain……… if yr boy says i dont get hurt …..that you can think again …..or may bee just leave him alone…..who cares you have yr own problems………

Calvin lema October 18, 2008, 8:17 AM

May byz likes sex bt ithink he causative r grlz!uknw wat thy wre!!!!make men came up!!{xsp:tight jeans[black wth Big hips&boody]men!!!!!the p!must beep in boys!}Eg;hre in Tanzania{africa}thng cam worh evryday!!!!adaptation of african amercan,mkes african go wrong!!
{so can we solve the problm}guyz

daddy-o December 24, 2008, 7:07 AM

Being a guy, that knows many other guys. We like all the other stabiliy things listed above. Bottom line. IT is all about sex. You take the 2% satisfying sex out of the eqution, and all the other stuff, relationships, health, etc. get impacted. Take care of you man, give him tons of sex.

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