Alleged Mistress Gives Sex Advice to Wife?

 

Why can’t she go out and get her own man? Not someone else’s.

- Anonymous

Posted 11/25/08 11:10 AM

 

 

Well, she may have slept with a married man, and I am a married woman, but I tend to think her advice is good. Obviously husbands has to understand that we are not the same “girl” they married—we have kids, responsibilities, etc.—but I know from my own experience that sometimes I treat my husband like a handyman and a paycheck. I have to step away from my own fear that things won’t get done and remember why I married him. Then pay attention to him as a person, not just as my husband.

- Susanne

Posted 11/25/08 11:50 AM

 

 

I really hate the fact that she poached someone else’s partner, apparently had no guilt about it, and is now giving some “good-hearted” advice to us wives and mothers out there…but I too have to admit that there is some truth to her statements. When we live with our spouse everyday, combined with work and caring for children, it gets really easy to take them and the relationship for granted. Sometimes, after a long hard day of work and kids, you’re just too tired for anything else! It goes to show that you have to make your relationship and sex a priority. She’s an unpleasant but true reminder of what could happen if you don’t nourish the relationship or take care of yourself.

- Anonymous

Posted 11/25/08 01:17 PM

 

 

I don’t like the messenger, but the message is right on target.

- NC

Posted 11/25/08 02:50 PM

 

 

I don’t particularly like the message or the messenger. Truly, what does she know about the rigors of marriage, children, fidelity through good times and bad? Staying “hot” for our guys and our guys for us, requires mutual commitment to make time for each others’ self maintenance…especially after four kids are on the scene as in the Ramsey case. If guys (or vice versa)want hot spouses then they should make every effort to watch the kids and let her workout, get her hair done, nails, etc.

- GSH

Posted 11/25/08 07:57 PM

 

 

Interesting that this woman has the audacity to give advice to wives, while at the same time admitting she was unsuccessful at enticing her married lover away from his. She considers herself an expert at a role she hasn’t even managed to attain, never mind retain. She obviously has no self respect, as she has already admitted to her failed attempt to lure him away by phoning his wife, yet she continued to make herself available for use by this man…..SHAME ON YOU SARAH!!

- Joy

Posted 11/26/08 04:56 PM

 

 

The funny thing is that men are allowed to relax get fat and woman are supposed to stay sexy, thin, young, and kept all the time. Why is it that woman have to have all these expectations at the risk of losing their husbands but if the tables were turned and you cheated on your fat, lazy husband, you would be called a tramp? (men usually get fat from pigouts, woman from bearing children- and he had a part in that) Another point, marriage is til death do you part. In marriage your supposed to feel secure with that person, that you dont have to worry about them breaking up with you because you gained 15 pounds, this man is supposed to love his wife, if you love someone you dont make such a deep betrayal. What is even the point of marriage if you dont have that security? I do think woman need to be more open to new things in the bedroom, still wear makeup and to some degree much of the advice given by this woman is good, but, woman are not their husbands servants. The bottom line is any man who cheats is at least 75% in the wrong, no matter what anyone says. Many woman I know do so much for their husbands and they still get cheated on for having a no oral sex policy, gaining 20 pounds or not being up to have sex at 3 in the morning. Sometimes it takes very little to get a man to rent a sleezy hotel with some tramp. To sum up this whole video makes me disgusted and every woman should listen to what Sarah has to say with a teaspoon of salt.

- Lucy

Posted 11/28/08 01:36 AM

 

 

Lucy- Thank you! Have you ever noticed on most t.v. shows that the wife is lean and sexy while her husband is a fat nasty lazy pig? ( According to Jim, Still standing ring a bell?) We had babies, whats their excuse?

- just sayin'

Posted 11/29/08 11:55 AM

 

 

How dare she give advice to wives. She doesn really know what happens behind those closed doors, just because men tell her what she wants to hear to get her into bed doesnt mean its true. There are many women that take really good care of there men and themselves and still end up being cheated on because SOME men are just pigs that like hos. So dont give this trash any credit for anything, she doesnt deserve it.

- Anonymous

Posted 12/04/08 09:18 PM

 

 

Good Day. I love being married. It’s so great to find that one special person you want to annoy for the rest of your life. I am from Cameroon and also now teach English, give true I wrote the following sentence: “Fleas can be a nuisance for both you and your pet especially during the warmer months.” With best wishes :-D, Vlad.

- Vlad

Posted 07/01/09 09:12 PM

 

 

Hi all. When you make a mistake, don’t look back at it long. Take the reason of the thing into your mind and then look forward. Mistakes are lessons of wisdom. The past cannot be changed. The future is yet in your power. I am from Cyprus and too bad know English, please tell me right I wrote the following sentence: “A time of a flow that is measured to be done is reflected a drama, and single media still think ridiculously provide a contrast at all.” Best regards :p, Mela.

- Mela

Posted 09/08/09 01:16 PM