Married Dad Makes Out on Dance Floor

Married Dad Makes Out on Dance Floor

Tuesday, November 18, 2008

filed under: love & sex

Should I have said something, or kept my mouth shut?

Momlogic's Gina: This weekend I watched as a family friend (a dad of one, with another on the way) made out with a woman on a dance floor. The only problem: It wasn't his wife!

Yes, I knew this church-going, conservative guy had chugged a few (okay, more than a few) drinks beforehand ... but that surely doesn't make his behavior okay -- far from it! As I watched him dance with this 20-something brunette and then kiss her square on the mouth, I had a sick feeling in the pit of my stomach. What a freaking LOSER!

When the guy sat back down, I gave him an earful. I asked him how he could live with himself when he has a three-year-old kid and a pregnant wife sitting at home. He claimed he "hadn't kissed anyone" even though I definitely saw it with my own two eyes. Plus, he had been talking to the girl at the bar all night ... and even that made me uncomfortable. How could a married father feel okay about flirting and kissing another girl? It seriously made me sick.

I told him I was offended on behalf of all mothers. That no mom deserved to be treated that way. That I felt sorry for his wife and his children. That I thought he was absolutely and positively disgusting. That a "boys night out" was not a free pass to cheat. But I knew he had drank so much booze, none of this was getting through. In fact, moments later, he was back at the bar chatting the girl up again. A few hours later, he was forcibly removed from the bar because the bartender said the girl didn't want to talk to him anymore ... but he wasn't taking no for an answer.

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maybe she was jealous that she wasnt the one being made out with……….

- anonymous

Posted 11/27/08 11:26 AM

hahhahaa…my post has to be accepted by the blog owner….holy christ she’s probably some rich scorned wife ,sorry kidz my blog of valuable information will never make the post…hahahahahah

- upurs

Posted 11/27/08 11:27 AM

Clarence Thomas didn’t have an affair with Enita Hill. Is there some kind of bias going on here?

- Ron

Posted 11/27/08 11:27 AM

depending on how pregnant the wife is, i don’t think it’s a good idea to drop news like that on her, she definitely doesn’t need the stress in her condition.

- Anonymous

Posted 11/27/08 11:27 AM

I think that you should of minded your business. It was a guys night out why were you there? The problem now a days is that people like you worry about everyone elses problems but there own. If you dont like what he was doing thats how you feel about it. Its not your place to teach someone how to act.IF people worried about themselves and not everyone else we would be in a better place

- Anonymous

Posted 11/27/08 11:30 AM

I think you should totally tell the wife. I’ve been in a relationship where I have been cheated on and no one told me. When I found out I was pretty upset that people had been hiding it from me for months. I would explain the entire situation to the wife. And seriously a guy who gets wasted at a bar while is wife is home pregnant, there’s something wrong there.

- NA

Posted 11/27/08 11:32 AM

You clearly have too much time alone in places that have bars. Why not go else where? Take care of yourseld and go out and do some volunteer work if you need to be helpful.

- Oyster4u2

Posted 11/27/08 11:34 AM

Lighten up, zealot. when I cheat, I tell my wife, then we move on. Just remember this: “Judge not, lest ye be judged.”

- Keith

Posted 11/27/08 11:35 AM

Obviously the woman at home did not do her job finding out what kind of creep she had married in the first place. She picked him so she gets what is coming. It does no good to tell the mother? at home anything cause she would not hear you. Its something that they must find out on their own. I know. I’ve been in that position. The offending spouse later found out but said had i let her know earlier, she would not of believed me. Go figure!

- moby

Posted 11/27/08 11:36 AM

I think a certain self-righteous busybody should’ve been minding her own business.

- The First Stone

Posted 11/27/08 11:37 AM

You did the right thing, and I’d also suggest you confront him again while he is sober, and let him know either he confesses to his wife or you will let her know, and if you know where he goes to church, you could let his pastors know, that way they can address his sin with him and hold him accountable as well, as a brother. And as far as the poster who said ” Isn’t it a Christian trait not to judge someone? ” She’s not judging him, she’s confronting him on his sin, which is completely different and a command of Christ. Christ tells us if we see a brother sin, we are to confront them, giving them an opportunity to repent and turn away from that sin. If he refuses to repent, then his wife can make her own decision on what to do from that point as can his pastors.

- B

Posted 11/27/08 11:42 AM

Good job at making him feel guilty. I think there is a problem with him being at a bar or dancing with a chick thats not his wife. He needs to feel guilty enough to go and tell his wife. If he doesnt than hes just a ****bag!

- Maria

Posted 11/27/08 11:43 AM

Oddly enough, Mike (and others), I do see your point of view, even though I am a woman. ****** I can NOT trust most of you…and you could NEVER trust me (ever again)…or one of my (adult) daughters…. Ever. My other (adult) daughter MAY be faithful to her (cheating) boyfriend, BUT I would not bet on it…. ************ It is so true…what goes around comes around. **** Peace!

- Peanut Santiago

Posted 11/27/08 11:43 AM

Blah, Blah, Blah who cares, the man was having a good time with the assistance of a few drinks, he won’t even remember it tomorrow. a little flirting and heavy petting, he probably haven’t had that opportunity in years.

- TC

Posted 11/27/08 11:45 AM

A well-fed horse won’t roam out of his pasture.

- Who's REALLY to blame?

Posted 11/27/08 11:45 AM

Wow, Amanda seems to have some real issues. Blaming the person who spoke up makes no sense at all. I won’t even discuss her poor grammar and/or typos. People like her blame the woman if they get assaulted. Wake up Amanda! He was in the wrong and should have been called on it.

- Lesa

Posted 11/27/08 11:47 AM

This is the MOST LAME story that Ive ever read. MOMLOGIC.COM???!?! OMG how about dumb logic?

- Anonymous

Posted 11/27/08 11:47 AM

Good for you, standin gup to the cur is what was needed. As far as the suggestion to tell the wife, believe me she knows even if she will not admit it. I know as I was once in that position myself. When she is ready she will do something about it. Until then let the cur know that you have an eye on him and support your friend.

- Granny

Posted 11/27/08 11:53 AM

I would certainly not condone cheating and from what it sounds like he had every intention of trying to take it to the next level with the girl… so I agree he should be ratted out. However if he was just out dancing and flirting a little bit and it escalated beyond what it should have but stopped with a kiss…is it really worth breaking up a marriage over? Again still not right, but does the bad activity rise to the level necessitating the ruination of a marriage and the likely the childrens lives for the next 20 years? Not in my opinion…

- Anonymous

Posted 11/27/08 11:57 AM

Why were you in the bar to begin with while his pregnant wife was at home and they are supposed to be family friends? Why weren’t you with her? If you really felt the need to butt into someone else’s business why didn’t you call her and ask if she would want to know about it? Maybe she got pissed off at him and tossed him out, maybe he caught her cheating and was getting even! bottom line in was NONE of YOUR business!

- Eddie

Posted 11/27/08 11:58 AM