Married Dad Makes Out on Dance Floor

Married Dad Makes Out on Dance Floor

Tuesday, November 18, 2008

filed under: love & sex

Should I have said something, or kept my mouth shut?

Momlogic's Gina: This weekend I watched as a family friend (a dad of one, with another on the way) made out with a woman on a dance floor. The only problem: It wasn't his wife!

Yes, I knew this church-going, conservative guy had chugged a few (okay, more than a few) drinks beforehand ... but that surely doesn't make his behavior okay -- far from it! As I watched him dance with this 20-something brunette and then kiss her square on the mouth, I had a sick feeling in the pit of my stomach. What a freaking LOSER!

When the guy sat back down, I gave him an earful. I asked him how he could live with himself when he has a three-year-old kid and a pregnant wife sitting at home. He claimed he "hadn't kissed anyone" even though I definitely saw it with my own two eyes. Plus, he had been talking to the girl at the bar all night ... and even that made me uncomfortable. How could a married father feel okay about flirting and kissing another girl? It seriously made me sick.

I told him I was offended on behalf of all mothers. That no mom deserved to be treated that way. That I felt sorry for his wife and his children. That I thought he was absolutely and positively disgusting. That a "boys night out" was not a free pass to cheat. But I knew he had drank so much booze, none of this was getting through. In fact, moments later, he was back at the bar chatting the girl up again. A few hours later, he was forcibly removed from the bar because the bartender said the girl didn't want to talk to him anymore ... but he wasn't taking no for an answer.

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I have to comment on Anonymous…..Why is it weird that he is out at a bar? That is a problem to you? Am I to assume that you feel once we get married and have kids, our lives are over? I am married and have kids….I take offense to your opinion. Regardless of our status in life, whether it be married, single, seperated…etc, we are all still individual people. We are entitled to our freedoms and nights out. I don’t know who you are married to…but I feel bad for the guy. Get a life!

- Nick

Posted 11/27/08 12:00 PM

“I told him I was offended on behalf of all mothers. That no mom deserved to be treated that way.” Oh, and women who AREN’T mothers DO deserve to be treated that way? If they were just boyfriend and girlfriend, or married without kids, would his behavior have been less egregious? Are mothers inherently superior to childless women? Cheating is cheating, and NO woman deserves to be treated that way, whether they have children or not.

- Carter USM

Posted 11/27/08 12:02 PM

Alan M also likes to stick his fat nose in people’s business obviously too—only in the voyeuristic sense. Enjoy the article?? Sure, read and enjoy. Heaven forbid someone should actually have enough of a conscience that they call someone else out for dishonesty—which is universally wrong. Not everyone behaves in this way. If people won’t look out for eachother, who will? Believe it or not, a society where every single person minds only their own business is a truly worthless society that would live in even more misery and denial. Grow up and take an anthropology or psychology class.

- liz

Posted 11/27/08 12:10 PM

I’d wager this is not the first time this man has cheated on his wife. He obviously didn’t care who saw him since he was in the middle of a dance floor. Kudos to you for speaking your mind. Don’t you think, on some level, she already knows? He wasn’t at home, and who knows how many times he’s left her alone - she’s not stupid. She’s most likely already suspicious, and it’s up to her to confront him. If you say something, you’re putting yourself in the middle of a delicate and incendiary situation, so be willing to handle the consequences should you decide to tell her. Meanwhile, I also thank you for speaking up for women everywhere.

- cecilala

Posted 11/27/08 12:11 PM

Caught red handed with a cold beer in one hand and a hot woman in the other! LOL! Sounds like a country song!

- Feliks

Posted 11/27/08 12:12 PM

You should have pulled out a camera/camera phone ( video phone would have been PEFFECT ) snapped a few and then went to speak to his wife !! In this day and age she should be given the chance to make an educated decision about how HIS actions can and will affect HER health !! With the pix, he cant deny it and if she chooses to stay after seeing them, thats her bad.

- The Queen Joni

Posted 11/27/08 12:14 PM

There is another side to this coin, and most married men know it. They meet their wives, they are beautiful both on the outside and the in. Then, they marry them abd begin to have kids. The women then let themselves go, become fat, don’t take care of themselves, and practice recreational bitching. You are miserable. A pretty girl smiles at you, and for an hour, you are alive again.

- Dan

Posted 11/27/08 12:14 PM

- The Queen Joni

Posted 11/27/08 12:16 PM

Thank you for calling him out on his behavior. Tell the wife, she needs to know what she is in for before she makes any more kids with him. Either you are faithful, trustworthy and true or your are not. Going out with the guys, having a man’s night out is okay if you are with the ‘guys’…but it sounds like he was there alone to pick up cheap women. He has issues that have nothing to do with his wife and if he wants a marriage and a family he needs counseling or a divorce while his wife is still young enough to have a life with a REAL man who is trustworthy, honest, and loves her.

- justme

Posted 11/27/08 12:17 PM

unfortunately, some women tolerate it that’s why some men do it … remember Hilary? now she will be all over the world representing women and it seems it is okay with the past that happened with Bill and Monica so life must go on…what an example to women world wide… if women who are leaders allow their men to do it, how much more for other women who are not even publicly known … if women wants men to stop it, then every woman should stand up and disallow it

- aconcernedman

Posted 11/27/08 12:19 PM

my pen name says it all. MYOB!

- MYOB

Posted 11/27/08 12:20 PM

If I’d seen it, I would have snapped some pics or make a mini video onto my cell phone and when the guy sobered up I’d show the stuff to him AND his wife at the same time. As a woman who’d been cheated on (I immediately kicked him to the curb when I found out), I’d want someone to tell me. There is absolutely NO excuse for cheating! If you’re that unhappy in your relationship, get out of it and move on.

- Shannon

Posted 11/27/08 12:21 PM

It is all in how the message is delivered. As it was described as he was under the influence, it would seem direct confrontation would be ill advised. Making the person aware others are watching is about as far as would be appropriate.

- Ray

Posted 11/27/08 12:21 PM

I cannot think of anything better than a nice Meaningful 1 Night Stand ! I love seeing and well, you know, the different dangling anatomy of a Sweet and Tasty Woman, If 2 People could learn how to stop arguing so much and just be glad they’re happy with each other, maybe someday, maybe, I will change my mind !! I would also like to see some of this Younger Generation get out and exercise rather than sit on their Fat Arses and just get Fat !! Look how much better your Mother looks than you do !! Yes….I prefer the Younger in shape Girls but keep your drama to yourself !!

- Joe

Posted 11/27/08 12:24 PM

feliks—-were you born in the Ukraine by any chance?

- Jean

Posted 11/27/08 12:26 PM

guys like him are the reason a guy like me who was raised right with morals and values and 100% respect for women who would treat my girl like the god given gift she is stays single not due to choice but because of all the players and cheaters and liars and abusers! PLEASE TELL HIS WIFE!!!!!! he does not deserve her or the kids as they say you dont know what you got till it is gone! i say that there should be a law that any guy caught cheating be it on a wife or girlfriend should be sentenced to be castrated no second chances no trials no waiting period once your busted in the act then you are just your taken to the hospital where you live while deputies wait and the procedure is done then you at that point after recovery are released back into the community! all i can say guys be glad i aint in goverment where laws are made up! cause i gauruntee cheating would end!

- john

Posted 11/27/08 12:27 PM

if she knows the family then i dont think theres any sort of an arrangement that she wouldnt be aware of its wrong id tell

- doda

Posted 11/27/08 12:30 PM

You need to learn to stay out of other people’s business. If I had been him and you spoke to me that way, you would have landed on your butt on the floor, with a sore face! This was none of your business!

- Don Thomason

Posted 11/27/08 12:31 PM

50% of cheating spouses are WOMEN! How about the Univ. of Iowa fan, a wife and mother of three children, who got so drunk at the tailgate party before the game, she ended up having sex with a complete stranger in the MEN’s bathroom and was arrested for lewd and lascivious conduct in public. This happened last week. Her husband was sitting in the stands wondering why his wife had not come back from a potty break.

- silverspoon

Posted 11/27/08 12:35 PM

oh that’s just great!! Who the hell would allow their kids dad’s picture to be flashed across the internet in that way. Maybe someone should be looking closely at the mother.. can’t be a very good mother to allow this. No excuses… the children have to be the saddest little people ever. And from the look of this man, they will be young. Merry Christmas to them dad and mom.. huh? this is sadly horrible.

- Jeanie

Posted 11/27/08 12:37 PM