Married Dad Makes Out on Dance Floor

Married Dad Makes Out on Dance Floor

Tuesday, November 18, 2008

filed under: love & sex

Should I have said something, or kept my mouth shut?

Momlogic's Gina: This weekend I watched as a family friend (a dad of one, with another on the way) made out with a woman on a dance floor. The only problem: It wasn't his wife!

Yes, I knew this church-going, conservative guy had chugged a few (okay, more than a few) drinks beforehand ... but that surely doesn't make his behavior okay -- far from it! As I watched him dance with this 20-something brunette and then kiss her square on the mouth, I had a sick feeling in the pit of my stomach. What a freaking LOSER!

When the guy sat back down, I gave him an earful. I asked him how he could live with himself when he has a three-year-old kid and a pregnant wife sitting at home. He claimed he "hadn't kissed anyone" even though I definitely saw it with my own two eyes. Plus, he had been talking to the girl at the bar all night ... and even that made me uncomfortable. How could a married father feel okay about flirting and kissing another girl? It seriously made me sick.

I told him I was offended on behalf of all mothers. That no mom deserved to be treated that way. That I felt sorry for his wife and his children. That I thought he was absolutely and positively disgusting. That a "boys night out" was not a free pass to cheat. But I knew he had drank so much booze, none of this was getting through. In fact, moments later, he was back at the bar chatting the girl up again. A few hours later, he was forcibly removed from the bar because the bartender said the girl didn't want to talk to him anymore ... but he wasn't taking no for an answer.

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At least he left his Fat Slob at home so she could finish eating her Bon Bons driving past the Gym and waving…Notice He was Good Looking and in shape !!! If She would have stayed the way She was when they got Married, He wouldn’t need to find a REAL Woman and get what all us REAL MEN need !!Moral of the Story…..Shut the FK up, mind your own business and always remember….who the hell knows what you’re doing !!! who the hell knows what she’s doing ??? who cares…Too many Hott Women out there to concentrate on one useless Nagging Pig that nobody knows what she does behind her Husbands Back !!

- Joe Mairaski

Posted 11/27/08 12:37 PM

Too bad you did not have a cell phone that took pictures. One picture is worth a thousand words. That way it is not you word against his. It sounds like this is not his first time at cheating. Too bad he can not see all the people he is hurting by cheating. If so he would see that cheating is not worth it.

- Carolyn

Posted 11/27/08 12:44 PM

The guy deserved an earful because what he was doing was hypocritical. He probably goes to church and pretends he is this good cleancut person that looks down on others who act like that. I don’t think this woman should tell the wife what she saw. IN time the wife will figure it out. The guy just deserved to hear it from someone who knows what a fake he is.

- E

Posted 11/27/08 12:45 PM

feliks—-were you born in the Ukraine by any chance? - Jean

- Jean

Posted 11/27/08 12:45 PM

i think you should talk to him when he’s sober and tell him that he needs to tell his wife… he definately needs to have the chance to come clean to her before you tell her

- Anonymous

Posted 11/27/08 12:45 PM

It’s easy, this is what I’d tell the “cheater”. If I don’t hear back from the “cheated on” spouse within a reasonable time that the offender has copped to their actions, I will tell them since I’m not interested in keeping a cheater’s secrets or lying to protect them.

- joe

Posted 11/27/08 12:47 PM

I agree with one of the women above the man should leave,however, it is cheaper to keep her. Married for 30 years, I suggested he go back home because It was the right thing to do. I am happy for her because even if he doesn’t have a good relationship with her he has an obligation to see it through.

- Cane

Posted 11/27/08 12:48 PM

mind own business

- Anonymous

Posted 11/27/08 12:50 PM

I can’t believe Amanda’s comment! This is a family friend this woman saw. She hd every right to remind him that that kind of behavior will ruin a marriage. And I agrre with those of you that say to tell his wife. I would be furious if I found out a friend of mine knew of my husband’s disgusting behavior and didn’t tell me.I would never let a friend of mine be left in the dark. And by the way, Amanda, if he was a family friend, this woman would know if they had an open marriage. I feel sorry for your friends and for you and your seemingly passive response to the whole situation.

- Cindy

Posted 11/27/08 12:51 PM

It’s obviously the wife’s fault for not fully satisfying her husband sexual needs! Her #1 priority should be leaving her husband too sexually exhausted to even think about kissing another woman.

- Hugh

Posted 11/27/08 12:51 PM

That’s ok, his wife was making out with me on the other side of the room.

- Ron

Posted 11/27/08 12:52 PM

sounds like a bunch of old hens, cackling. Typical of religeous folk to be the first to judge. If your so righteous, maybe take a look at your own husband first. Do you think men cheat because they are madly in love with their wives? Besides, maybe there is more to it then you think you saw. Who is anyone to judge first, and ask questions later? Take a look at yourselves in the mirror. Are you the wives that your husband married?

- don

Posted 11/27/08 12:55 PM

I think the woman that confronted him should mind her own business. I don’t understand what gives her the right to intervene in the guy’s personal affairs.

- Anonymous

Posted 11/27/08 12:57 PM

First off the dude obviously has a serious drinking problem, and this will cause problems later if it has not previously. What he needs is an intervention on his drinking, he will say later that he does not remember, or that he just had “a little too much to drink” if he does remember it. The bottom line is that drinking leading to behavior such as that is a pattern, and the fact you had not seen it before is just because you are not with this dude all of the time. His wife may even be in denial about his issues with drinking, which lead to his lower inhibitions, which lead to the inappropriate behavior. You might say I am speculating a lot on this, but believe me in 99% of situations like this it is a bigger issue. Also, whatever you told him that night was not processed, and a drunk will never process information. If you want to remind it if him when he is sober, I would do it, his reaction will tell you what type of person he really is. If he denies it, he has a serious problem but is in denial, if he says it was just one of those times he got a little drunk, he is embarassed by the behavior, but will do it again and needs to stay out of bars, if he is remorseful, he knows he has a problem and might know he needs to change but has no motivation to try to change, but will tell you please don’t tell her, I won’t do it again (but he will). The last option is if he says (like about 1%) do, I have a problem, I need help, then I would ask him to talk to this wife. (You do not talk to the wife, you do not realize how deep this is)

- Mark

Posted 11/27/08 01:01 PM

let him have it!?!? let YOU have it!! Mind you own business!!!

- Anonymous

Posted 11/27/08 01:02 PM

Don’t worry about the splinter in his eye until you get the tree removed from yours. (That means mind your own business) Randy

- Randy

Posted 11/27/08 01:05 PM

It’s obviously his wife’s fault.

- Joe Schmoe

Posted 11/27/08 01:05 PM

who knows, maybe his wife is cheating on him

- lauren

Posted 11/27/08 01:06 PM

i would tell also, if a man you know is cheating on his wife she has every right to know and then make a decision on her own. personally i would get rid of the bum i would never tolerate that, they cheat once they always do it.

- heidi

Posted 11/27/08 01:06 PM

feliks—-were you born in the Ukraine by any chance? - Jean

- jean

Posted 11/27/08 01:11 PM