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Should I have said something, or kept my mouth shut?

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Momlogic's Gina: This weekend I watched as a family friend (a dad of one, with another on the way) made out with a woman on a dance floor. The only problem: It wasn't his wife!

Yes, I knew this church-going, conservative guy had chugged a few (okay, more than a few) drinks beforehand ... but that surely doesn't make his behavior okay -- far from it! As I watched him dance with this 20-something brunette and then kiss her square on the mouth, I had a sick feeling in the pit of my stomach. What a freaking LOSER!

When the guy sat back down, I gave him an earful. I asked him how he could live with himself when he has a three-year-old kid and a pregnant wife sitting at home. He claimed he "hadn't kissed anyone" even though I definitely saw it with my own two eyes. Plus, he had been talking to the girl at the bar all night ... and even that made me uncomfortable. How could a married father feel okay about flirting and kissing another girl? It seriously made me sick.

I told him I was offended on behalf of all mothers. That no mom deserved to be treated that way. That I felt sorry for his wife and his children. That I thought he was absolutely and positively disgusting. That a "boys night out" was not a free pass to cheat. But I knew he had drank so much booze, none of this was getting through. In fact, moments later, he was back at the bar chatting the girl up again. A few hours later, he was forcibly removed from the bar because the bartender said the girl didn't want to talk to him anymore ... but he wasn't taking no for an answer.

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What do you think of this lowlife dad? Let him have it!

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David November 27, 2008, 9:16 AM

He is a manslut like so many others.
Men who play around on their partners and use the excuse that it’s in a mans nature to do this is pathetic. Its called self control, and a real man.., a good man whether he straight, gay or bi will use it and sustain from cheating on his partner ! This man is weak and selfish ! He needs to think about how he would feel if his wife did the same thing behind his back !!

Fred November 27, 2008, 9:16 AM

Maybe him and his wife are swingers, maybe his wife threw him out of the house, or maybe his wife is another cold woman that only married for money. you dont know what hes going through. Cheating is never ok, if its cheating. To me there are some things to do to make your man feel good enough about his self that he wont want to go cheat.
1. treat your man good and they usually wont want to cheat
2. do those things in the bedroom you KNOW your partner likes, he wont cheat
3. dont nag!! nagging can tear away a mans confidence, then he has no choice to rebuild it.
4. show him you love him.

I’m a man, and im not defending this guys behavior, im just saying you dont know what is on his mind. you may have done a good thing by speaking out, but you still have no right in this guys business. you could have told your FRIEND what you saw though. Next time try being a good friend, and not a nagging woman. NO OFFENSE TO ANY WOMAN OUT THERE!!!! except the one that was in this guys face.

ryannsarahsmom November 27, 2008, 9:17 AM

Next time whip out the cell phone and snap a picture to send to his wife. That way there is no “but baby, I swear it wasn’t me” crap, period.

greeneyes November 27, 2008, 9:17 AM

I would have taken a video with my cell phone and then threatened to show it to his wife unless he stops going out on these “boy’s” nights. What a jerk! If he can cheat, I can blackmail.

Allan November 27, 2008, 9:18 AM

I was sitting at the bar, minding my own business when this guy comes in and sits down next to me and starts a conversation. After a while he introduced himself….Said he was “God”
After a few beers he was really talkative, said at one time he really had the “hots” for Mary….well, you know what that led to…He said it really kinda upset Joseph that him and Mary were “messing around” but it was absolutely necessary for the salvation of mankind. If it was wasn’t for that we would not be able to have this conversation about what’s right and what’s wrong.

JH November 27, 2008, 9:19 AM

Good for you - I don’t care WHAT ANYONE says, if it had been me I would have confronted him and told the wife where her man was and what he was doing. How many diseases are out there? If this man is stupid enough to get drunk in a public place with someone who is NOT his wife, then who are we kidding about any type of safe sex? Sorry, total loser. Whatever he does has an impact on his woman at home - and if that woman is my friend it has an impact on me.

jeff November 27, 2008, 9:26 AM

You told him YOU were offended, as if your opinion carries any weight. If the wife is a close friend, it is your duty to tell her. Otherwise, you’re just meddling.

Samantha November 27, 2008, 9:27 AM

I would definitely tell the wife (as I have done once before) but you run the risk of her not believing you and losing a close friendship. It would clear your conscience though and eventually, she would start taking notice and see what kind of man she sleeps with at night. Hopefully, he doesn’t have any ‘other’ children on the way with other women. What a dog! I have no respect for anyone that cheats (having been cheated on twice myself during two past marriages). He should have more respect not only for his wife and his children but for HIMSELF!

janey November 27, 2008, 9:28 AM

It is very sad to see the thinking of some of these men on here. some day you will be older and lonely and wishing a woman would want you. you over porned guys with unrealistic ideas of sex, and having multiple partners are going to have alot of fun with your herpes and limp units someday. Knowing how to treat a woman, and actually having a desent personality would bring you better sex than you will ever know because you have no idea what loving intimacy is by picking up different women all the time. I feel sorry for you that you will never know great love and sex that I know with my man. some day when you grow up, which hopefully you will remember what I said here.

anonymous November 27, 2008, 9:30 AM

I was in this situation several times during my pregnancy, and although all of my friends new, no one told me.. It was difficult to realize the betrayal of these so called “friends”, and my brother! Maybe they didnt want to tell me, because the thought it could emotionally affect my pregnancy, but finding out when my son was only 2 weeks old hurt just as much. The sooner the better.

EDawg November 27, 2008, 9:35 AM

Maybe he wasnt the father of the one in the oven?

Franic November 27, 2008, 9:36 AM

that man is sooo low i dont even know how tall he is
seriosly messed up

EDawg November 27, 2008, 9:37 AM

Maybe she should have joined in for the Threesome but Gina was too uptight and inhibited. He needed a release.

Allan November 27, 2008, 9:37 AM

Women 37 men 2. Let’s fire the coach and wait for next year’s draft.

Allan November 27, 2008, 9:41 AM

Maybe he overdosed on Viagra, had a “4-hour erection” and could’nt get to the emergency room.

Anonymous November 27, 2008, 9:44 AM

Any one know if this is a real superbowl 09 commercial and if so is this the same girl from the article?

Anonymous November 27, 2008, 9:44 AM

Definately tell the wife. After trying years to make an abusive relationship work, I got the courage to leave, only to find out from many sources, all the things my ex had been up to. If they had spoke up earlier, it would have saved me years of hardship.

Marge November 27, 2008, 9:45 AM

It is good to tell the wife because my husband left me a note saying I left and I won’t be back. Wonderful! left me his family and friends and never looked back. Its already 5 months, never heard from him or don’t know where they are. He left with my best friend and we were married 45 years. He even has all our possessions in his name and I can’t do anything legally. Coward and the biggest scum bag they both are.

Al November 27, 2008, 9:48 AM

Let’s hope the latest heir to “Camelot” can keep it in his pants better than JFK!

Jake November 27, 2008, 9:50 AM

Thats not her, the girl from the article, the 20 something I think is the one in this commercial.

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