Ever have a fight with a friend and wish a judge could tell you who's right? Now you can tell It to the Vuv!
I am 37 years old and I thought I was over the high school-like spats with girlfriends ... but my friend Janet (I thought she was my best friend) got two tickets to a concert she knew I would love to see and she invited a woman we both just met two months ago. I called her and told her how I felt and she told me I need to grow up. We have not spoken in two weeks. Whaddya think?
-- Gayle from Jacksonville Florida
Gayle, we all need to grow up. When we stop growing, we die ... so let's figure out how you and Janet can grow from this experience. Is Janet a friend you want in your life for the long term? If the answer is yes, be the "bigger person" and call her again. Be real! Tell her you were jealous and you really would have enjoyed seeing that show with her and spending time with her ... 'cause face it! That is what you were feeling and women have to learn to honestly express feelings like that without embarrassment. If Janet is a true friend she will appreciate your candor and I believe it will lead to continual growth in your friendship.
xoxo, the VuvTell us about a squabble or a split between you and a friend and let the Vuv Decide!!