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Guest blogger Karrine Steffans: So, maybe it's been a few days or weeks since you and your hubby enjoyed each other, sexually. Don't panic. Though your man probably loves sex just as much as the next guy, and loves you for that matter, many times he simply needs to know you find him sexually attractive, no matter how many pea-green diaper messes you've accidentally stuck your fingers in today.

Happy couple hugging

Next time you pass him on your way to your cranky toddler, grab him and let him know you can't wait to have him again. Next time he takes out the trash, kiss him passionately, look him in the eyes and let him know how much you love and appreciate him. It's amazing what a simple wink or caress will do during hectic times.

Let him know you recognize the changes in your sex life, that you care, are eagerly awaiting your first opportunity to scratch that itch and, most importantly, before anything and after everything, love that man.

Foreplay begins weeks, days and hours before you get naked and there is no aphrodisiac as effective as true love and caring for your partner.

We work full-time in and/or out of our homes and we sometimes lose track of our men, thinking they can take care of themselves. But they're your babies, too, and need you just as much. So, tell that man just how much you can't live without him and, first chance you get, f***k him silly!

For more, read The Vixen Manual: How to Find, Seduce and keep the Man You Want, July 2009. More info at

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keepinitreal February 4, 2009, 7:44 PM



keeshee February 5, 2009, 6:17 PM

I think this article is not only heart felt, but tasteful. I love to read it when you write like this. Sound’s like the bun in the oven is taking over… It’s not ALL about money, and survival anymore, huh? (although it’s easy to get used to it!) Stay happy and give us a vlog soon cuz we miss u on!

supersponge1 February 7, 2009, 5:43 PM

Karrine is right. Simple things matter. Let your man know that you want him.

~renee~ February 8, 2009, 12:56 AM

very true….. always let your boo know he is loved. No matter what because what you won’t do the next women will rite Karrine!!!! love you by the way!!!

chaddy-boo February 9, 2009, 4:14 PM

You know, I love me some Karrine. Just b/c she was once a person that women had to watch out for and keep their man close doesn’t mean that she can’t be liked or a change person. Quit haten hater, live your own lives. Let God examine her not you.

Mirror February 11, 2009, 10:26 AM

Schae, I think you are a little….. one sided in your views as well. I read KS’ blogs on here, but only chose this time to comment. We SHOULD all know that many may read the blog but not write a comment. So to say that EVERYONE knows the information KS gives or that someone’s family member imparted the information as well is not true. That may be how you feel due to your life and circumstance but it is NOT everyone’s truth.

Fine, many people may have the knowledge (since she is giving more of the “101” information), but the fact of the matter is momlogic employed HER to write about it. There was something about HER and not everyone else that caused this company to choose HER. So even though you may have a great wealth of knowledge- they aren’t asking you to write for them.. are they?

As far as comments- I agree everyone is entitled to their own opinions, however you can get to the point of being contradictory. If you absolutely do not like KS, do not agree with her viewpoints or lifestyle- why spend time on her? Because the truth is the opposers come to this site and take the time not only to READ EACH BLOG, but RESPOND ON EACH BLOG…. Who spends time on something the don’t care about or despise??????

stphustlingme February 21, 2009, 4:40 PM

If you can’t stand the truth stop hating on people that recognize for what it is …. How can you do all that Sh** then try to wrap it up and put a bow on it like you some expert… And as long as she keep putting it out there like she some expert I am not buying and I have every right to blog that here or any other place I This Trifling hustler is still hustling but now she has a bigger audience suckers that keep buying into this bull! MOM logic should be ashamed… what a disservice… we all know Karrine got a ghost writer and don’t even write half this mess…
Keepinitreal and Schae I with yall these other tricks are the real haters!

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