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Doing it on Valentine's Day doesn't have to be a "must." It just has to be fun!

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Wedding night. Anniversaries. New Year's Eve. Valentine's Day. All very big nights. All expected to result in one thing: SEX. Everyone knows that you haaave to "do it" on your wedding night ... and it's only polite to commemorate your love by "making it" on your anniversary ... and you certainly have to go out with a "bang" on New Year's Eve ... And Valentine's Day? Well, screw the romance. You should just want to screw on V-Day. Period!

But the truth is, these big nights can often lead to high expectation and lots of disappointment on both ends, literally. So how do you take the obvious, robotic, must-do sex out of these nights and make it fun and spontaneous? Well, with Valentine's Day just a couple days away, we asked Karrine Steffans to weigh in. Karrine says, "There is no one special day for romance and there can be no spontaneity in a day earmarked for it. What Valentine's Day can be, however, is a reminder to make everyday the perfect day to show your mate how unconditionally you love them."

Karrine's Fab Five Ways to Make Valentine's Day Great (in and out of the sack!):

1. Find 100 Ways: Present your partner with a list of 100 things you absolutely love about him. It may seem like a lot, but once you get going, you'll realize just how easy it is to find 100 reasons why this guy is your guy.

2. At Your Service: Serving someone does not make you subservient. The gift of service is a testament to your love and devotion to one another. Do whatever he asks of you and allow yourself to be served, as well.

3. Be Still: If your lives are lived on the move, take this time to simply be. Between kids, jobs, family and friends, there is always so much to do and so many people to talk to! Block out the outside world (even your kids for a bit, if you can), and enjoy the silence with no pressure of doing anything at all!

4. We Are Family: Valentine's Day doesn't have to be all about you and your man; it can also be a day for you and your children. If you can't or won't have a sitter for the day, include your kids with cards, cookies, movies and games. Reiterate to them they're a huge part of your love for one another.

5. Freaks Come Out at Night: Whether you relaxed all day or spent it out and about, at the end of it all, you and your hubby will wind up in bed together. Nothing beats the tried and true bubble bath, music, champagne, strawberries, whipped cream and a kick-ass lingerie set! Set your inhibitions free and try something you never have before. Shock and amaze your lover, and don't wait a whole year to do it again!

Want to make this a steamy Valentine's Day? Go to our ML Community and get the scoop on EVERYTHING VALENTINE'S!

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14 comments so far | Post a comment now
Jude February 14, 2009, 7:54 PM

Remember, sex in the right context. Married folks only…

Anonymous February 14, 2009, 8:29 PM

I can’t believe this site has Karrinse giving any sort of opinion or advice. Aren’t you aware of her past and what she stands for. This site should have more respect for themselves and it’s readers.

Mackenzie February 14, 2009, 9:43 PM

I too can’t belive Momlogic actually has Karrine posting here. The Video Vixen’s past alone, is enough for me not to give a crap what she has to say. I wouldn’t take an ounce of her advice it it slapped me in the face.

suasan February 15, 2009, 4:47 AM

This guy looks familiar.I saw this guy’s personal ad is still available at that billionaire dating site What happend to this couple?

Laura February 15, 2009, 4:53 PM

Not a fan of this kind of stuff on momlogic. Or her.

Sue February 16, 2009, 1:34 PM

Put the crack pipe down! Who takes advice from a woman whose only claim to fame is that her mouth is a human toilet. Every man she is allegedly “with” denies knowing her, marries someone else, treats her like a jump-off and uses her for what she is good for.

Sadly, in her delusion Superhead actually believes that she is more than a curiosity. Her demeanor and story changes with her audience. It’s hilarious watching her feign respectability. Superhead is still turning tricks; she simply upgraded from back seats and alleys. Superhead advice isn’t MomLogic; it isn’t logical at all.

Vixen February 19, 2009, 9:00 PM

I like the fact that Ms.Karrine says that Vday doesnt excatly have to include just your man that it can also involve your kids or expressing your love to your friends its suppose to be a day of love an i think it would be nice for once in a while your friends an not just your man to be reminded of why they are in your life an why you love them

stphustlingme February 21, 2009, 4:58 PM

((((Applause))))) Sue you got it right ! What is the site thinking ! People try a more respectable source … one that hasn’t spent her career on her back. Momlogic is more like tricklogic. Those that claim to be fans wake up and stop letting this trick hustle you. Yall keep acting like she changed but when did she change? She was just talking about Darrius Mcarry and his anal beads and that basketball player she was up in the room with… nothing has changed…

Yadi February 22, 2009, 12:04 AM

Great job Karrine!!!I love what you have to say, it helps me out in my relationship,keep up the good work. As for Sue & others the key word here is PAST, it is her past. Why can’t you guys just accept that and move on,HATERS!! Do you hate yourselves so much that you hate a person you don’t even know?

Anonymous February 23, 2009, 12:17 PM

Facts isn’t hating. Facts are facts. Superhead is merely fodder for curiosity and entertainment. Her d*ck sucking, c*m drinking, skills hasn’t produced a keeper. They all leave. It is irresponsible for MomLogic or any publication to promote Superhead. Instead of giving advice, Superhead should be getting intensive therapy.

Mrs. C February 24, 2009, 8:10 PM

Ok…I’ve read a couple of her blogs on here and as a married woman, I think they’re “interesting” I agree and disagree. Then I scroll down and see all the negative comments.??? It was her past and she is speaking from it as how she pleased and kept some men around. Even if it was for a minute or a month. She wrote a book and men agreed she was super head. I saw her tape, tried it on my husband now he calls me superhead! lol….Bottom line, let her do her thing. If you don’t like her advice you don’t have to take it. Now…I don’t like how she fools her audience sometimes with fake pregnany and all that other crap, but she’s just giving them what they want. I no longer visit her site beacuse of it, but her mom logic is ok…

Sarah February 26, 2009, 1:23 AM

I couldn’t agree with you more Mrs.C, all of the vixen BS is a thing of the past, her momlogic is quite entertaining, good tips on how to please your spouse/mate, I think she might know a thing or two about that, after all she is know as “Superhead”.

Hmukzfvy June 22, 2009, 10:16 AM

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TR August 4, 2009, 5:34 PM

All you insecure snitches… Watch out! While you’re here bad talking this woman, someone just like her, who knows how to please a man is out there getting at yours. But don’t worry, you get to comfort yourselves with your rants while he gets his d*ck sucked by a pro. Good for you! Sue and crew… wait for it!

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