Radical Mommy: I know that this might be a controversial attitude, but hear me out before you start banging your drums and calling me an idiot -- again!
I think that it would be good for Jon and Kate's marriage if he were to have an affair -- in fact, I think it would solve a lot of their problems and actually make their marriage better. Why? Let me tell you.
If Jon was having sex with another woman, then maybe Kate wouldn't have to spend all day looking after that litter of kids of theirs and then have to "put out" for Jon, who obviously drives her crazy a lot of the time, at night. Instead, she could relax, take a bath and go to bed unbothered. I mean, I only have one kid but that sounds like freaking heaven to me.
If Jon was having sex with another woman, he wouldn't need/want to have sex with Kate -- and most likely have to nag her into doing it. I say "nag" because there is no way in hell that Kate is throwing on lingerie and begging for S-E-X at night after looking after eight children all day long. Instead, he could have sex with another woman and enjoy a relationship free from resentment with his wife. This would not only benefit Jon and Kate, but it would certainly benefit their brood who wouldn't have to watch the couple bickering all the time.
Now that I'm thinking about it, maybe Kate should start getting some on the side as well. After all, what stay-at-home mom couldn't use a little spice and excitement in her life? Maybe "getting it" from the mailman (or whoever) once in a while would help her loosen up and enjoy her husband and children more.
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