My husband was out of town for four days ... and now I have new respect for single mothers.
Momlogic's Julie: My husband was out of town this week on a guys' trip to Vegas. That meant I would be flying solo with my two kids, age 5 and 8.
Piece of cake, right? WRONG!
My husband is an actor and stay-at-home dad, which means he's the one who makes the lunches, does the grocery shopping, and keeps the household running. He gets the kids ready for school and drops them off and picks them up daily when I'm at work.
Without him here, I had to scramble to get the kids ready, serve them breakfast, make their lunches, make sure they had their homework completed, and get them to school on time ... then dash straight to work in heavy traffic to make my 8:30 AM meeting.
I know single mothers have to do this every day, but I am not used to it. By the time I got to work, I felt like I'd run a full marathon!
One day, I had to pick the kids up early from school and bring them to my office so I wouldn't miss an important meeting. I know this is the kind of juggle (and struggle) single moms face daily -- ladies, I commend you for it!
At night, dinner was not on the table like usual -- in fact, we ate out every single night. This got expensive ... single moms, I do not know how you do it.
This morning, I discovered we were out of toilet paper. Oops, I hadn't found time to go to the store (something my husband normally does). Paper towels it would be! Again, I thanked God for my wonderful hubby, and silently praised all you single mothers out there who have to go it alone.
My husband will be home when I get back from work tonight, and I absolutely cannot wait to see him. I appreciate him more than ever.
Being alone for four days has made me realize how much the stay-at-home parent does ... without you, we cubicle-dwelling, 9-to-5ers are completely lost. And it gave me a new appreciation for single mothers and all you do 24/7. I am in awe.
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