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Boss Him Around in the Bedroom

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Guest blogger Georgia Payne: You'd be amazed how many of my clients tell me they wish their girlfriends or wives would simply take charge in the bedroom. Many of these guys have high-powered jobs and have to boss people around all day. When they get home, they'd like nothing more than their significant other to boss them around between the sheets.

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The trouble is ... many of these guys are embarrassed to say so. They worry it will make them look weak, or "whipped." So they say nothing ... thus, their secret desires go unfulfilled.

My challenge to you ladies is to just be the boss in the bedroom, even if it's for one night only. Pin him to the bed. Tell him what you want him to do to you, and how. Bark out orders.

Forget playing nice. Be the aggressor. Put the moves on HIM instead of waiting for your guy to make the first move.

If you're feeling extra brave, make him beg for it. Really embrace your inner vixen. YOU'RE in charge here. Make sure he knows it!

A blindfold will help you be even more in control. He won't know what's going to happen next. Tying his hands back with a man's tie or a silk scarf (or even using handcuffs) is another great way to assert your power.

C'mon -- be the boss. Your lust life ... and your love life ... will never be the same.

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Mr.Big October 21, 2010, 3:39 PM

I am one of those men. I am the boss all day at work . Sometimes My wife really takes charge. She dresses me in a matching bra and panty set. Stockings and sometimes a skirt . She plays boss calls me her secretary pushes me down on the bed. yanks the skirt up Spanks me a little. then we have the most amazing sex you could ever imagine.

Last week she did the same thing only this time She put lipstick and heels on me ordered me to my knees and under he desk. She then asked” how does my secretary feel under the bosses desk?? She leaned back in the office chair and said The boss has a special treat for you baby “and …if you do a good job you might even get a raise ” She unzipped her pants and popped out a realistic looking toy . It looked real popped out of her business suit pants .. Go ahead take care of the boss now ” She grabbed my hair and pulled me closer. I did what was expected of me. I felt totally over powered by her She pushed my head and commented on how i was doing .I was doing it and loving it.She is the most beautiful women in the world so i had no judgments on what was going on.

It felt so wonderful to surrender all control to her . I loved every minute of it . Afterward we again had the most amazing sex ever. I do not know where she got the ideas from. I do not really care. I love her so much for it . It is an awesome stress reliever. I have never been so happy in my life. I adore my wife so much .

So everything about a man wanting to give up control sometimes is very very true and the most satisfying thing I have ever experienced

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