Guest blogger Georgia Payne: You'd be amazed how many of my clients tell me they wish their girlfriends or wives would simply take charge in the bedroom. Many of these guys have high-powered jobs and have to boss people around all day. When they get home, they'd like nothing more than their significant other to boss them around between the sheets.
The trouble is ... many of these guys are embarrassed to say so. They worry it will make them look weak, or "whipped." So they say nothing ... thus, their secret desires go unfulfilled.
My challenge to you ladies is to just be the boss in the bedroom, even if it's for one night only. Pin him to the bed. Tell him what you want him to do to you, and how. Bark out orders.
Forget playing nice. Be the aggressor. Put the moves on HIM instead of waiting for your guy to make the first move.
If you're feeling extra brave, make him beg for it. Really embrace your inner vixen. YOU'RE in charge here. Make sure he knows it!
A blindfold will help you be even more in control. He won't know what's going to happen next. Tying his hands back with a man's tie or a silk scarf (or even using handcuffs) is another great way to assert your power.
C'mon -- be the boss. Your lust life ... and your love life ... will never be the same.