A Tantalizing Toast with a Twist ... Cheers!

A Tantalizing Toast with a Twist ... Cheers!

Monday, May 11, 2009

filed under: chef nikki shaw

Chef Nikki Shaw: Anyone who knows me knows that I'm constantly in search of great food, fun, and adventure! I have made toasting a mandatory tradition and it has proven to be a great way to get the party started, if you know what I mean. Plant a sexy seed early in the evening to let him know that the upcoming harvest will be plentiful.

When it comes to "tantalizing," my motto is "the rules are ... there are no rules." However, in order to pull this off successfully, there are a few guidelines. Remember, men are visual and physical beings. Speak their language and keep it HOT! For this exciting adventure, seduction starts with sensual words and sexy lingerie. You're only limited by your imagination. Trust me, the glasses won't be the only thing to rise.

"NIK TIP": First, have a plan: think before you speak. Next, keep it short and sweet. Revisit a fond memory or use a relevant quote. Here's where you can really have fun and put your own tantalizing twist on it. Have confidence and good eye contact. Don't forget, the eyes are the windows to the soul.

In this bitter economy, I'll show you how to make life sweet right at home.

Celebrity Chef Nikki Shaw is the owner of Flavor Caterer in Oakland, Ca. and was a finalist on the Food Network's "Next Food Network Star." She is the host of the radio show "Today's Flavor" broadcast on San Francisco's KBLX and webcast on WBLS in New York. She is married to LA Lakers' Assistant Coach Brian Shaw and lives in both Northern & Southern California with their three children. www.chefnikkishaw.com

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Give me more. PLEASE. You have my mind going about the “no rules” I would love an example of how to make it “hot” for my man. Stop teasing us and make it really JUICY!!!!!

- Allie

Posted 05/12/09 09:11 PM

love it:)) reall great… how about some jucie idea for the vegan or vegeterian non gluten….cople…??? keep it going…. great…

- nataly

Posted 05/14/09 06:08 PM

I love the suggestions. Great information to know and have. Keep the good info. coming.

- Dree

Posted 05/14/09 06:48 PM

You are truly awesome Miss Nikki. I love your suggestions in this article and I agree with the other reader I would love to know some healthy juice ideas. My kids LIVE for juice…from the oldest to the youngest!! Keep it coming!! Shari Chadwick-Morgan

- Shari Morgan

Posted 05/14/09 07:11 PM

Nikki: I am your biggest fan, looking forward to hearing more of your “flavorful” advice. Keep ‘em coming!

- Joanna Garel

Posted 05/14/09 09:41 PM

Nikki: I like your “NIK TIPS”, but would love to have specific advices for hard-working-career couples to keep relationship HOT and JUICY.

- Ling

Posted 05/17/09 08:56 PM

I love tantalizing…….You go girl, great incentives to keep your man going.Here’s a toast to you, keep up the good work!!!!!!!!!!!!

- Phyllis M. Wherry-Carey

Posted 05/29/09 11:07 AM

You rock and thanks for sharing! I’d love to hear more specifics - I’m very analytical and not as creative as I’d like to be. Tell us more about creating a mood. We want more!

- Regene

Posted 05/29/09 03:44 PM