Guest Blogger Natasha: "WOW" is the word of the day. My 16-year-old daughter told me that "her friends" aren't ready for "sex," but they give their boyfriends "head" all the time.
After I picked my chin up off the floor, I asked her what exactly is "head"? Sure, I know what it is, I just wanted to see how much she knew. Well, she told me it's when a girl gives a boy a "B.J." Her friends seem to think that this is the way to keep their boyfriends happy and still remain virgins. They simply call it "safe sex," because you won't get pregnant.
Is it just me, or am I right in thinking that if you give a guy oral sex, shouldn't it be like an added bonus, extra credit, or icing on the cake? When did oral sex start to come BEFORE having sexual intercourse with a guy? Here's the better question ... Why are girls doing all of the "giving" and none of the "receiving"? Not only do we need to teach them "self-respect," we need to be sure they have strong "self-esteem."
Don't get me wrong, I'm disgusted with the whole thought -- but let's be smart ... and fair!