Most of us have!
Did you ever date "Mr. Fatal Flaw" -- and stay with him for one reason? (Clue = the sex.)
Maybe he was very financially challenged, a big drinker, a two-timer, and/or an addict. Despite these fatal flaws, you continued to date him for the sex. But who knew that there's actually a word to describe this behavior?
Yes, there is: "Dickmatized."
Say, what? Of course, I called Dr. Leah, a.k.a. the Sanity Fairy,™ right away to ask her the meaning of "dickmatized."
I thought it was some fancy, esoteric psychological term ... honestly, I did.
But Dr. Leah set me straight: "Obviously, there's the raunchier meaning. Enough said."
Here's what Dr. Leah added: "When you're 'dickmatized,' you do and plan everything around your man. Gradually, you lose both yourself and your friends."
"Dickmatized" also refers to the state of mind of a woman who is dating someone who is just not good for her.
In other words, "dickmatized" is the converse of the age-old phrase "p*ssy whipped."
Have you ever been "dickmatized"? How about one of your girlfriends?
|Rachel Sarah, a.k.a. "Single Mom Seeking" blogs at SingleMomSeeking.com and co-founded SingleMommyHood.com, the first-ever website to offer "a whole new way to think about single parenting."|