Not so funny, huh?
The lawsuit, filed last year, claims the Jersey-born comic made false, defamatory, and racist jokes about her mother-in-law, Ruth Zafrin. And it's a litigious family affair. Not only is Zafrin suing, so is her daughter, Shelley Edelman, and Edelman's husband, Neil.
The bicoastal Croonquist, who is also biracial --- her mother is African-American and her father Swedish -- converted to Judaism when she married her husband, Mark, an attorney who is representing her in the suit.
Croonquist is baffled by her relatives suddenly not being able to take a joke. "I didn't see it coming," she told us. "It's not over jewelry or money, it's over a joke." Jokes she's been telling for over 10 years without a complaint from anyone in her immediate family. Not even her husband was concerned about his mom being used for comedic fodder.
One of the jokes Croonquist believes to be the catalyst for the suit is the story she tells about the first time she met her mother-in-law. "I walk in, I say, 'Thank you so much for having me here, Ruthie.' She says, 'The pleasure's all mine, have a seat.'" Then, Croonquist, in character as her mother-in-law, delivers in comic sotto voce, "'Harriet, put my pocketbook away.'"
If Croonquist's mother-in-law gets her way, the hard-working comic will have to remove all references to her in-laws from all her comedy routines, blogs, and recordings -- decades of material she's been performing in comedy clubs all over the country and on national television.
Ironically, Croonquist is really a Jewish mother-in-law's dream come true. When she married into the Zafrin family, she converted to Judaism, and keeps a kosher home. Both of her children, Aviva, 8, and Tovah, 6, attend Jewish schools.
What's no laughing matter is the toll the rift is taking on her children. She tells momlogic, "I'm a mom, and that comes first. For me to have to explain it to my kids, why we're not in touch with aunt and grandmother and brother-in-law, is painful. Ruth Zafrin is my children's only living grandparent."
Should Croonquist's family learn to take a joke?