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Middle School Bans Hugging -- It Sets a 'Bad Example'

sign up for the momlogic newsletter Tweet This YEAR six and seven students (11 and 12-year-olds) have been banned from mixed-sex consensual hugging at a primary school in South Australia for fear it would set a "bad example" to younger students, AdelaideNow reports.

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Following complaints from parents at Largs Bay Primary School, the school has banned hugging and other displays of affection for "boyfriends or girlfriends" in the two senior grades.

"Hugging is not banned (between friends) at Largs Bay Primary School but we do discourage displays of affection in the schoolyard among students in years 6 and 7 who have a boyfriend or girlfriend at the school," principal Julie Gail said in a statement.

". . . we want our older students to set a strong example for younger students at the school."

The SA Education Department yesterday refused to endorse the policy and could not say whether it applied at any other school in the state.

Parents from two families not happy with the policy contacted The Advertiser and said the school should act only if the display of affection was inappropriate, rather than a blanket ban for all 11 and 12-year-olds.

Neither would be named because of fears their children would suffer at school, saying students had been punished for hugging.

They said the school's deputy principal and counsellor had told the students of the ban at a meeting of Year 6 and 7s this week, after an outbreak of hugging when friends were reunited following the recent school holidays.

The school's governing council has not discussed the ban at its meetings but one family which has a girl at the school, and another with two students, are not happy with the policy.

They said it was far more strictly applied than the school suggests.

"I don't want my child to go to a school in which displays of affection lead to punishment," one mother told The Advertiser .

"My daughter has boys who are friends and she is being told she will be punished if she hugs them, I think that is setting a very bad example for younger and older children."

UniSA child protection expert Elspeth McInnes said the benefits or disadvantages of the policy would depend on how it was applied and policed.

"Commonsense needs to prevail and if someone has just heard of terrible news and is being hugged you would not expect the school to overreact as opposed to what may be going on at the back of the class," she said.

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5 comments so far | Post a comment now
s October 19, 2009, 6:05 PM

we had that at my school five years ago. it was called the no touching policy and it was for Kindergarden to 12. Every one eventually forgets about it, like hall passes and the 24 cameras

Anonymous October 21, 2009, 9:50 PM

The same policy is currently held in my area from grades 9-12, though no where near as strictly enforced. Most students don’t see the point of the ban, and after it was first issued about 3 years ago, many petitions by the students have been collected to recall the ban - to no avail.

Megan November 11, 2009, 4:25 PM

How can anyone be that stupid? Where are all these idiots coming from, who have no capacity for reason or wisdom?

Alex November 13, 2009, 11:26 AM

I’m not sure what the school is proposing to accomplish by this policy. Do they think that somehow hugging is an immediate slippery slope to sex? As in “My God if they’re hugging in front of us, what on Earth are they doing when they’re out of sight?”

I never understood why the showing of affection was ever a negative thing to begin with.

Jay January 5, 2010, 9:52 AM

This is pathetic - another case of the world going mad.

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