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Open Letter to Sandra Bullock

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We're all feeling for the Oscar-winning actress right now. She should be enjoying her success -- not caught in the middle of a media frenzy over her love life.

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Single Mom Seeking Rachel Sarah: Sandra, you made us cry as we watched the Oscars. We thought it was so brave when you went against the grain during your acceptance speech: Instead of giving the usual blah-blah to Hollywood, you honored your own mother and "the moms that take care of the babies and the children, no matter where they come from." Thank you. I cried. (You, too?)

That's why we're all torn up right now. At this very moment, you deserve to be jet-setting across the country and glowing in the spotlight. Folks have been waiting to adore you at the London premiere of "The Blind Side." Instead, you've canceled your plans.

We understand.

Hearing the news that Jesse James reportedly cheated on you broke our hearts. Just finding out the details would make any woman scream and throw things. It also brings up some of our own fears about commitment.

But instead of lashing out at your husband in anger -- certainly you're feeling plenty of that right now -- we simply want to offer our empathy.

We heard that you moved out of your home, and we're thinking about you. Please know that you deserve to be loved and adored. We hope that you're surrounded by well-intentioned, supportive friends and family right now. And when you come out on the other side, we'll all be cheering you on!

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Wendi March 21, 2010, 7:26 AM

Thank you for writing this, it was very well said. She needs this type of thing right now and not all the other crap people are saying.

AnotherMother March 21, 2010, 10:52 AM

I dunno anymore. The shout-out to mom’s who take care of babies no matter where they come from seems to be a personal reference the child custody case she got involved in that’s none of her beeswax. As more is revealed, Sandra seems to be involved in a lot of nefarious activities. She took up witchcraft after ‘Practical Magic.’ She has a white witch cast spells during filming to make her movies successful. She married a white supremacist lowlife. Her life is chock-full of strippers and porn stars. I’m starting to wonder whether Bullock is really the America’s Sweetheart that her PR machine spins?

Karen March 21, 2010, 12:05 PM

Perhaps we should just stay out of her business? Would you comment on anyone else’s life out loud like this? You don’t even know her or their story.

Martinimermaid  March 21, 2010, 12:10 PM

Woah… Sandy did practical magic with my cousin Aidan ~ she is a doll. You can’t believe what you’ve read in tabloids.
I agree this marriage was a mistake. This guy must be a con artist bar none.
I believe she has been woken up from the dream of you have to be in a family to be happy.
( remember that movie ~ I could cry for her really)
Sometimes you need a push to be the best you can be ~ and she has had that. Our little girl grew up the hardest way possible. She didn’t deserve this . And all these scum around her are going to make money off of heart. She is a woman. The the person who let those text out was slime.

momof2 March 21, 2010, 12:35 PM

Im with you there Wendi… Sandra needs to be around ones that love and care for her. and I can say that I to will be one cheering her on and I hope that she will come out of this stronger and as happy as one can be..

adelaide dancing March 21, 2010, 5:19 PM

nice letter, it’s simply not fair that sandra bullock has to go through this!

Chrissy March 22, 2010, 12:17 AM

If Momlogic believes “
not caught in the middle of a media frenzy over her love life”
then why write the article at all?
Aren’t you just contributing to frenzy when you continue to write about it? And give people like Anothermother the opportunity to write such crap?
Personally, I’m with Wendy & Momof2.
But I think the best we can do is to tell the media to stop covering this. Aloow Ms Bullock some peace.

Anna March 22, 2010, 1:11 AM

Yeah Chrissy, it isn’t fair that Sandra should go through all this, but the truth is, it isn’t fair for any woman to go through all these,sometimes i wonder why so much importance to marriage, when it causes so much pain. The truth is that men all over the world, particularly Nigeria, have no respect for the sacrament of marriage.

I wish Nigerian men were half as remorseful as men in UK and USA when they are caught cheating, but no, its seems to be the order of the day and even the society seems to support it.

Sorry Sandra, but most of us women in Nigeria are dealing with far worse cases of infidelity, it sends most to a mental institute.

Michele March 22, 2010, 8:29 AM

This is straight from the heart. Exactly how I felt for Sandra. And the timing of the affair is horrible considering that it happened before she reached this current Oscar-height. Shame on the mistress for attempting to kill the fame-flame. Yes, I said it. She knew he was married whether he claimed to be or not. Shame on Jesse James for being shameless, his seemingly biggest offense of all. But worst of all, despite the fact that we ALL love Sandra Bullock, what Dr. Wendy said in her post was true: Jesse came the way he went-from one woman to another. When the courtship (I guess you can call it such) began, Jesse was married for the second time and that wife was pregnant. He lost focus in that household and began wooing Sandra.
“The flirtations of a married man should never be accepted. Ever. You need to pay close attention to his history, not to his rationalizations for his “situation” says Dr. Wendy. Sandra, the bug bit you in the beginning of this relationship. Now it’s coming back to bite you in the end. My heart bleeds for Sandra, but he was someone else’s husband when you started dating. Now, he’s your husband when he started dating someone else…Galatians 6:7 does not lie for you will reap what you sow. But we still love you. Next time, believe the background check!

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Darwin March 22, 2010, 12:32 PM

wow, completely disagree with you busy bodies. Sure its terrible that he cheated on her and now they have to work it out whatever their decision is. But none of us are involved with this. Pipe down and keep your miss guided quotes to yourself.

susan j. sager March 22, 2010, 3:04 PM

What upsets me the most for Sandra Bullock is the comment she made at the Awards that “my husband has my back.” And Jesse James sat there in the audience with full awareness that he had been bedding the tattoed bimbo !! I actually became physically ill when this all came up about the McGee woman and thought back to the Awards show.

Humiliation such as this is almost incomprehensible. I understand she has changed her marital status to single on her facebook page.

Arlene April 2, 2010, 2:20 AM


Don’t listen to anyone except your heart. I was in your same spot years ago. People seen him here and there and I felt like an fool. Of course I am over it now but it took awhile. I opt for a divorce but I didn’t have the love that you have for Jesse in me. I think you still love him and there is nothing wrong with that Girl. Get him out of the rehab and take him to church. Only God can restore your marriage, believe me Sandra if that is what you want it can be done. You should move his job and yourselves to a smaller town away from all of that drama. Like Temecula, Chino Hills, Corona. Anywhere but there. Have him fire all of his crew and you hire a new one. A God fearing crew. You can still be cool an go to church. Change his phone number, email etc. Maybe that is wrong of me to say but I am old school like your Bud George Lopez. Sorry I got off track for a minute. Get your family in a christian based church,such as Creflo Dollar, Joel Olsteen, Joyce Meyers. You can Watch Joel and Creflo Sun. channel 5 8:30am and 9:30am. No rehab is better than putting your cares on the alter for the Lord. He can restore all for you better than you had before. Pray and keep the faith and it shall come to pass. Email me if you like I feel your pain Girl alot of us woman have been there. Remember you are not alone.
Love Ya
Your sister in Christ

Ouida Exum April 6, 2010, 7:04 AM

It amazes me when people who have been deceived by those they trust end up feeling so embarrassed or ashamed. Sandra Bullock made lovely comments about her husband and marriage on the Barbara Walter’s special. She further gestures loving acts for her husband in her acceptance speech at the Oscars. Excuse me but this is exactly what I think a loving wife is suppose to do in honor of her husband. Bravo to her!
If her husband’s cheating deception rendered her heart felt comments inappropriate, that’s his shame not hers. Truth heightens awareness. Lies tend to be the root cause of unwise decisions. The liar is the cause of the disconnect.
My hope is for Sandra to hold her head high, put on her brightest smile, walk proud as the accomplished, beautiful, vibrant woman she is and go forward with informed choices. Further, any man woman or child that has been deceived in any way by those they trust,need to forgive themselves for the choices made while blinded by deception. Your informed choice was stolen from you. When you know better, you do better! It’s not your fault! Go forth armed with the power of truth. Given an empowered attitude, any dark cloud of embarrassment, guilt or indecision will peel away as the harsh light of reality washes over you!
Sandra, put on a red dress, cowboy boots, strap that Oscar to the front of your car and ride down the street waving to all of your ardent admires! You are America’s sweet heart! Just stay true to yourself! It’s clear that you have been honorable in your personal choices. If you didn’t create this situation, you can’t fix it. That’s not your job. In this situation, you now have the information to make a choice that’s right for you. You are a winner! You go girl! I love you!

Hammer April 21, 2010, 8:33 PM

Sandra Your Husband is a Dam Fool if he dosen’t get him self fixed. If he loves you, He better make up it up to you,every day, for the rest of his life, with his wife. I wish I had a chance. I met a sweet woman a few weeks ago, 3 kids. Flood took every thing she had.I might give her my house.I been in my home comming up 20 years. I’m ready for a change/road trip plus, My taxes are to high. I’m a DAV and Retired disaster volunteeer. Any Way Sandra I want a woman Just like You, Can’t find one around here. But Not Married. Kids OK If she’s a little nutty it’s OK As long She’s on meds by a Dr. and not a druggie. And I don’t smoke. and I don’t drink to get drunk.

Molly Nunnenkamp August 14, 2010, 11:48 AM

@Chris- I was thinking the same thing

Vedavyas November 11, 2010, 2:30 AM

We dunno any longer. The actual shout-out in order to mom’s that care Best coffee makers for infants regardless of exactly where these people arrive through appears to become the private research the actual youngster custody of the children situation your woman obtained concerned within that is none associated with the woman’s beeswax. Because much more is actually exposed, Sandra appears to become concerned inside a great deal associated with dubious actions. Your woman used witchcraft following ‘Practical Miracle.’ Your woman includes a whitened witch throw periods throughout filming to create the woman’s films profitable. Your woman hitched the whitened supremacist lowlife. The woman’s existence is actually chock-full associated with strippers as well as porno superstars. I am beginning in order to question regardless of whether Bullock is actually truly the actual The nation’s Partner which the woman’s Public relations machine re-writes?

Prestiti personali November 23, 2010, 1:10 PM

I love Sandra. She’s smart and beautiful. Really a good letter to my favourite actress!
Prestiti personali

Gee27 November 24, 2010, 8:47 AM

They say any publicity is good for the career but I bet Sandra didn’t feel that way. Just wait a week someone else will be in the spot light either for the best or worst. Cheap Calgary Hotels

Tom December 6, 2010, 7:38 PM

This lady is very beautiful.

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