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My Husband Is Driving Me Insane

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Guest blogger Liz: The recession has affected a lot of Americans, and our family is no exception.

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My husband lost his job unexpectedly after the new year, and has just recently (thank you, GOD) started back to work. For a good while, he was home with me and our baby daughter. At first, it was great to have him here -- but the vacay lasted about a week. Why? Because. He. Drove. Me. Crazy. Honestly, at times it was like dealing with another child! He slept late in the mornings, left dishes in the sink and generally huffed and puffed when I asked him to do stuff around the house. Since when does a dude gripe about fixing a squeaky door or tightening a couple of loose screws? Don't they love that kind of stuff? I thought most men got high at the idea of bringing out their shiny toolbox! Guess I was wrong.

I also found myself talking to him like one of our older kids when they misbehave: "How many times do I have to ask you to ...?" And once I had to stop myself from counting (something we do for "stop behaviors": "That's one ... that's two ..." -- you get the picture) when he was whining about something. Yes, WHINING. I thought grown men were beyond that, too. Wrong again.

I realize I sound like some nagging nightmare of a wife, but that's not who I am. Usually.

During the time he was out of work, I slowly came to realize that the health of our togetherness depended on our time apart -- me doing my thing, him doing his. Previously, we had enjoyed each other's company because weren't in it 24/7 -- that's one of the reasons we've always had such a solid marriage. Thankfully, he wasn't lazy about getting work. He was networking and interviewing almost daily, so I was confident he would be back out there soon enough. It took two-and-a-half months, but it happened, and we are finally back on our regular schedule.

Even though it was tough, we did learn a lot about each other. And our marriage is stronger for it.


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