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'When She Turns 18' Is Wakeup Call for Dads!

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When we saw the video for the new song "When She Turns 18," we just couldn't look away. Dads, are you listening?!

The gist of the song is that if Daddy doesn't pay attention to his daughter, THIS guy will. Shudder.

Psychologist Dr. Wendy Walsh says: "This video is a much-needed reality check for deadbeat dads everywhere. In the video, teenage girls are having orgy-style sex in little-girl underwear while the bad boy croons to fathers, 'She just wants attention and you won't give it to her .... When she turns 18, she'll choose between me and you. And guess who she's gonna pick?' Bottom line: Girls with inconsistent and absentee fathers looong for a man's love. They often confuse sex and arousal with deep feelings of love, and they also tend to become attracted to 'bad boys' (guys who can't love them back) because it resembles Daddy's style of love. Belt it out, Christian TV! So sad that those dads aren't exactly your demographic ...."

What do YOU think of this song?

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16 comments so far | Post a comment now
Black Iris May 17, 2010, 12:29 PM

I like the message of the words, but I think the pictures really send a different message. They seem more like an excuse for guys to look at pictures of hot teen girls having sex.

jenny May 17, 2010, 12:53 PM

That’s a christian video? More like Porn.

mel May 17, 2010, 1:11 PM

I know this is true since i looked for love in all the wrong places and married a man who didn’t love me back. The sad thing is now that we are divorced my little girl might (I pray she won’t) be the next victim.

john strong May 17, 2010, 2:49 PM

yeah, well i am a single dad that thinks that there are a lot of mom’s out there in distant unloving relationships that might consider some choices when they “turn 18”…great tune, i know christian through a detroit connection, through one of my daughter’s. life is funny.

Anonymous May 17, 2010, 5:56 PM


HeeHee May 17, 2010, 5:58 PM

Sounds like a boy band song.

aliomaley May 17, 2010, 9:42 PM

This isn’t a religious video. The singer’s name is Christian.

Momma2Nico May 17, 2010, 10:30 PM

The girls on this are the girls from “Pretty Wild” on the E channel.

Mike May 18, 2010, 1:01 PM

What does this have to do specifically with deadbeat dads? I get that it totally shows how daughters need their relationship with their fathers to grow and change as she matures. 18 isn’t a magical age at which maturity appears, it’s an arbitrary age picked by society. Different girls are going to have different relationships with different dads and boys are going to have to be part of the equation. Relationships are compilicated, but they are also one on one and require work all the time.

Anonymous May 18, 2010, 6:14 PM

When she turns 18 she`ll chose between me and you. If this is about dead beat dads then she wouldn`t have to chose, there would be no dad in the picture. Thats how I see it.

Howard Stern May 19, 2010, 3:17 PM

Wendy Why did you marry a niggggger?

ron June 17, 2010, 11:42 AM

As if a slutty girl is actually going to wait till age 18 to act slutty… What a corny song..

Ainsley July 9, 2010, 7:26 AM

well, that’s appropriate for Christian TV

Free Pc Optimizer September 7, 2010, 7:58 AM

Thank you for your share! I just need it

get it here September 11, 2010, 8:31 PM

Now after which I’ll stumble across a write-up like this and I will recall that there very are still exciting pages on a web. ^_^. Thanks.

haha September 12, 2010, 10:40 PM

haha lolololol the artists name is christian..TV duhh

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