Mom-To-Be: I used to have one of those steel-trap memories. The kind that would drive my husband crazy because I never. Forgot. Anything. (A very handy tool when having a spat.)
And then I got knocked up.
I'd gone to see a psychic before I conceived, and she'd told me that not only
would I get pregnant, but I'd have a textbook pregnancy. I smiled, thinking she
meant that everything would go smoothly, and that none of that stuff that happens to
other moms-to-be would happen to moi. Now I realize that she meant I'd have ALL
of the "fun" and common pregnancy side effects affect me -- and then some.
I can deal with the weight gain and the mood swings and even the disgusting
stuff no one talks about. But what I can't deal with is my inability to remember
My memory was something that I could always rely on. Someone needed to recall a
story from high school? I was on it! Someone wondered who'd won the Academy
Award for Best Picture in 2000? They called me! But now, I can't even remember
what I had for breakfast this morning, let alone what big news story happened
this week (something about a mine?).
I'm counting on the fact that it will come back. That after the baby is born,
I'll remember things again. It will be like coming out of a fog and seeing the
light! Although someone needs to tell me about this thing I've heard about
called "mommy brain" ....