Should I Spin My Husband's Sperm?

Guest blogger Jessica Katz: When I get pregnant with my daughter, all I wanted was a little girl and everything pink and feminine -- and I got it. I was thrilled that my husband didn't really care either way. And we knew we would have another child. However, I have several friends who are talking about spinning their sperm -- well, their husbands' sperm -- to ensure the sex of their next baby.
I have to say I’m on the fence about this one. I can understand the desire to choose the gender. I have a cousin with 5 boys, this last pregnancy they were expecting another boy, and actually had a girl. Everyone had to check and double check just to believe it. Not that she did or didn’t want whatever gender she had. Both genders have their pros and cons (as does everything in life), personally, I’m not for planning out the genders of children from the get go, but could understand it for the couple/person looking for that last addition and feel their chances are slim. I think this topic is like so many others; I think it is up to those in the position to decide what is right for them and not the general public deciding whether or not it is right.
What that first response has to do with sperm washing I do not know.
These techniques are not fool proof and I feel so badly for kids who find out the only reason they exist is because their parents were hoping for someone else.
I cringe every time I hear a parent say, “Well, we were hoping for a little girl but we got Billy - but we love him anyway!” as if that makes it ok that they’re saying in front of their son that they wish he was someone else. Comments like that generally mean, “We really wish you weren’t born, Billy, but since you were and we’re stuck with you we’ll love you anyway.”
I guess if parents can keep this stuff a secret to protect the feelings of the child they DO get then I feel better about it.
I don’t have a problem with it unless people start to prefer one sex to another by a very large margin. Then the US would begin to resemble China.
Some men are only capable of producing children of one sex or the other. Not all men can make boys AND girls. No amount of spinning and washing will ever change that.
Some men are only capable of producing children of one sex or the other. Not all men can make boys AND girls. No amount of spinning and washing will ever change that.
They do this in Spain too so it’s not just in the United States. There is also a procedure called PGD where you create embryos then once the cells have divided one cell is taken and genetically tested to check for gender and genetic abnormalities. That procedure is also banned in many countries but legal in the US.
I would not have this procedure done but I don’t have an overwhelming desire to have a girl. We are happy to have had four healthy boys. If I did have an overwhelming urge to nurture a little girl we would probably consider the spinning but not the PGD procedure.
I have been struggling with this question for some time. I have two precious boys and I want a third child. I would love to have a little girl, but want a third child even if it is another boy. But I do REALLY want a daughter. My mother is my best friend and I cannot imagine my life without a daughter…
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