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Guest blogger Olivia: I've always been a huge flirt. Whether it was batting my eyelashes at the high-school quarterback or trying to charm my way out of a speeding ticket, I've enjoyed my fair share of flirting with the opposite sex. And I've always felt that my flirting was rather harmless.
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When I was younger, I was a flirt as well. Flirting can be an art. However, be careful when playing with fire. Beware that someone may call your bluff. Otherwise, have fun. Guys can really be quite gullible.
We have two simple guidelines in our marriage that has kept us both happy and secure. We behave as happily married people in all instances and we don’t do anything we would not appreciate being on the receiving end of.
Text flirting with any woman other than me would make me highly upset because he should have spent that energy seducing his wife. So in turn I do not waste my energy flirting with gentleman other than my husband.
I can see where you two are coming from, however, it is just plain wrong. What is our society coming to “a little harmless flirting”…ha! Are you ladies in high school? If your husband is really that bad in pleasing you 100% and you feel like getting attention from other men, leave! You are being manipulative and using your husbands. To “Delete all traces” is lying and lying does not help ANY marriage. It’s simple, KS said it right; do not do anything that you wouldn’t want done to you. If you want to be single and act like a child, your husband has the right to know. If you truley do regret the emotional affair you took part in, and took the necessary steps to end it, then you should have no problems telling your husband about it and after the anger wears off two things will come of it. 1- your marriage will be stronger and 2- he will realize that he needs to step up his game.
This is exactly how my husband’s affair started. Texting and chattinf on facebook turned to an affair. if you plan on staying married you better end this now. This is just the first step that is eventually going to end in a divorce. Then you will find that the man that you were flirting with was not worth the end of your marriage
The Internet is like alcohol in some sense. It accentuates what you would do anyway. If you want to be a loner, you can be more alone. If you want to connect, it makes it easier to connect.
It is amazing what you can find on the net. thanks a lotfor this.
I think your post was secretly a good start to a potential series of posts about this topic. A lot of people pretend to know what they’re talking about when it comes to this topic and generally, very few people actually get it. You seem to know about it however, so I think you should run with it. Thanks!
If you would be a real seeker after truth, it is necessary that at least once in your life you doubt, as far as possible, all things.
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Tasha, just because your husband had affairs doesn’t mean everyone will. She said she knew it was wrong and she ended it, you’re very ignorant.
Olivia, I love this blog post because I recently had something like this happen to me. It was an ex boyfriend and he kept texting me trying to get me to send him sexy picture, but I never did. I just liked the attention. But I ended it too. I can completely understand where you’re coming from.
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You’re probably going to get a lot of harsh criticism for this post, but not from me. If your husband’s like mine, he tells you you’re beautiful, sexy, wonderful all the time. And, if you’re like me, you start to take it for granted. It’s always great to hear, but it stops giving you butterflies after awhile. So when you hear the exact same thing from someone else (someone who may mean nothing to you, as opposed to your husband who means everything to you,) it’s a bit thrilling. I’ve had a couple of brief facebook flirt-spurts with two former crushes. I know it was wrong….I knew it at the time, even. I wish I hadn’t done it, but I did and I won’t deny that I loved the attention. In the end, as you said, it wasn’t worth the pain it could have caused to my better-than-wonderful marriage, so I deleted all traces and haven’t looked back. We all like compliments. The allure is very, VERY tempting. I say it’s wrong when you’re in a committed relationship, but I’m certainly in no position to cast the first (or any) stone!