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From Breakup to Marriage

by andra brosh and allison pescosolido  posted Monday, December 6, 2010
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Divorce Detox: The airwaves are saturated with the story of Britain's Prince William's engagement to commoner Kate Middleton. Their fairytale romance is a light of hope in a world where the divorce rate stays steadily high. The question on nearly every divorced person's mind when they read about the storybook engagement is, "Will it last?"

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It's hard to predict any couple's marital outcome, but when a couple breaks up and gets back together, as William and Kate did back in 2007, we can make an assumption that there can be trouble in paradise. When a couple breaks up, it is because the relationship is not working for one or both partners. Whether you call it "taking a break" or "needing space," a breakup is obviously a red flag that there is room for improvement. Red flags in a relationship indicate that professional help is necessary to salvage the relationship and help the couple endure many years ahead. 

Sadly, many couples who "take a break" then reunite without addressing core relationship challenges end up divorced many years later. Here is a list of red flags that indicate a relationship needs professional assistance: 

  • Infidelity 
  • Different core or financial values 
  • Jealousy or trust issues 
  • Ineffective communication
  • Incompatible lifestyles 
  • Porn, alcohol or drug use
Andra Brosh, Ph.D., and Allison Pescosolido, MA, are the leading divorce-recovery experts in Los Angeles. Founders of "Divorce Detox," a proven program guaranteed to speed recovery through the divorce transition, Andra and Allison are certified grief-recovery experts, and both hold advanced degrees in the field of psychology. Visit www.divorcedetox.com to learn more about their programs and cutting-edge work.



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Katie December 6, 2010, 2:48 PM

Nobody can ever say,for sure. However, i think many of assume one of the core issues was him not wanting to get married yet and seeing as THAT problem has been solved I would say they seem to stand as good a chance as any couple

Anonymous December 6, 2010, 3:40 PM

A royal couples has pressures most of us don’t have. Maybe she didn’t want to spend the rest of her life doing the royal thing. Maybe his family tried to break them up. I wouldn’t assume they’re in trouble.

KS December 6, 2010, 5:09 PM

I would assume their split was due to the pressure of being in the spot light. I’d imagine it takes an enormous toll on both you and your relationship.

Maybe they realized they were more in love than they thought or maybe they did seek the help of a counselor. Either way it’s non of our business. Good luck to them. I hope they have a long and happy marriage.

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