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The Childless Bitch on Gift Giving

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The Childless Bitch: Hey kids: Have yourself a giftless little Christmas.

Childless Bitch on Gift Giving

For this season of giving, I'm in the mood to spread a little holiday cheer. And what could be more cheerful than talking about buying presents? How about ... not buying presents?

Let's be honest: About 90 percent of your holiday shopping list is filled with people you don't want to buy gifts for. I like to call these people the "have tos." You know the type: your boss; your kid's librarian; your mother-in-law. Or in my case, YOUR children. Yes, your little precious gems are burning a hole in my pocket. And I can't even tell them apart.

It's time to put a stop to this madness. Haven't I done enough already? Besides the millions of gifts I've given for every one of your milestones (remember your promise-ring party?), I've cheered at the soccer game, bought lousy gift wrap for the school fundraiser and, even worse, rode in your minivan. The truth is, I have to give a gift to your child because YOU will judge me, NOT Poo Pants.

Because of this unspoken truth, I am filling your stockings with a naughty little list of why I will not be giving your child a gift this year.

1) I'm not friends with your child.

I don't know if you remember this, but you and I chose to be friends. I didn't realize back then that you hated birth control so much. Just because your children came from you doesn't mean they come with you. Please note: This includes your somewhat creepy husband.

2) No matter what I get them, your gift to me will not be equal.

Do the math! Trudging through the war zone that is Toys "R" Us for two Cabbage Patch dolls and a Nintendo Wii does not come close to a mani-and-pedi gift certificate. I don't care if it includes gratuity. Let's face it: The single girl always gets screwed!

3) They have no clue how to receive a gift.

You managed to teach your Mini Me how to read and eat solid foods, but somehow forgot to show her how to properly open a gift. Throwing that hard-to-find Dora Whatever-Her-Name-Is on the ground and screaming "I already have this!" doesn't exactly inspire me to run out and buy her more crap.

4) I am practicing a green way of life, and would prefer not to contribute to unwanted waste in the world.

Have you seen your living room? One look at that toy-littered tornado pit is enough to have your house declared a natural disaster. My extra present may be the one that gets your house condemned. It's for your own good. And you're right : You totally don't spoil your children. Not at all.

5) He peed in my car.

6) You're only using me.

I'm on to you. You're the greedy one and want ME to help YOU compete against Perfect PTA Mom Down the Street who gave her kid a real-life Transformer last year.

7) He doesn't know my name anyway.

8) Your gift suggestions are coldly calculated.

Last year, when I asked if there was anything in particular I could get your kids for Christmas, that was your signal to say something like, "Oh ... I don't know ... you don't have to!" Instead, you chose to name all the gifts you couldn't find, and forgot to mention I'd have to stand in the cold for three hours to get them.

9) What do I know about safe toys?

"Recall" this; "lead" that. Age-appropriate toys?! No matter what I get them, it will just end up in their mouths. I'd rather save you a trip to the emergency room.

10) Last but not least, somewhere in the middle of dancing with a stripper at your bachelorette party and crocheting a new throw for your ducky-themed nursery, you completely forgot how to give a truly good gift. Well, lucky for you I'm feeling extra generous this year!

Merry Christmas to all, and to all a giftless night!

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9 comments so far | Post a comment now
bel December 9, 2010, 8:37 AM

I love this!!

Shanon December 9, 2010, 9:01 AM

You know what…I don’t expect it of anyone to get me or my child gifts for Christmas, friends or family. There is more to life and the season than gifts. Our financial situation is better than my husbands side of the family. I have 7 nieces and nephews on that side, and Christmas is pretty much the only time (other than birthdays) that they have a chance of getting something nice. So I do spend more than I know they would ever spend on my child. And we chose not to buy gifts for the adults. Instead we exchange cookies or ornaments between the families. I would much rather be able to spend time with the people I care about than ever receive a gift.

Kathy December 9, 2010, 10:50 AM

hahahahaha this is awesome, i love it!!!

???? December 9, 2010, 11:43 AM

Gotta love the CB!

KS December 9, 2010, 5:29 PM

Your friends don’t give you the good gifts because they have read your blogs and don’t want to waste their money on a self absorbed brat.

CosmoGirl December 9, 2010, 8:59 PM

I guess the CB isn’t around anymore because this is like the 3rd year this blog has been used…

I hope she got married and has whiny, rude children.

Lea December 10, 2010, 9:19 AM

I have kids and I feel this way.I hate buying for peoples kids. I only like to buy adult gifts for friends instead of their kids. I also don’t expect people friends to buy for my kids.

Anonymous December 10, 2010, 7:51 PM

Momlogic needs a ‘like’ button.

Lori W.  December 13, 2010, 9:21 AM

I love this and totally relate!

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