Anh-Chi: Holidays have become so ingrained in our culture that sometimes we forget to evaluate their significance.

I haven't been directly affected by someone who's died in the military. Most of my ancestors, whom I've never met, died during the Vietnam War. The extent to which it resonates with me is the fact that my grandmother, great-grandmother, and many others dutifully led a widowed life after losing their spouse. I really admire their strength and courage, to love their husband unconditionally even to this day. That's the same love I have for my husband. God forbid if anything ever happened to him, I would love him regardless and remain loyal my entire life.

My friends say that you can have more than one soul mate, and that love is a choice. I don't agree. I truly and deeply believe that my husband and I are meant to be together, and that he's the only one for me. I can't describe the amazing connection we have. The first week we spent together, we felt as though we had known each other for years. I look at him sometimes, and wonder why we didn't meet earlier in life, since we're so incredibly compatible. I will admit, though, that I get worried about my husband every time he's on an Air Force mission. I have no idea what's going on, since most of his work is confidential. I'm not out there battling half the challenges he's facing, but it is tough not being in control of the situation. All I can do is pray, and have faith he'll come home safely each time.

So this Memorial Day, my heart will go out to anyone who's lost a loved one in the military. Those who have served the military should be recognized and commended. They're some of the most hard-working, kind-spirited, and inspiring people. Although my husband's always been patient and caring, I think his military career has really shaped his character and morale. He's that much better of a person, and I'm grateful for that. And I'm more than positive that will translate into becoming an amazing father.

Speaking of which, I should be taking my Early Pregnancy Tests on Memorial Day. How ironic ... a day of remembrance may actually turn into a new beginning. Like I've mentioned before, I've become quite used to the adage, "With every ending, there's a new beginning." I only have 5 more days ... let the countdown begin, as my husband would say.

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