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I am in a relationship and everything is great except tha sex. I'm losing my mind over this. How important is sex in a relationship? we have a child together or I would just leave without a sec thought. do u leave someone based on sex alone? I'm so confused. And worse I think he thinks it's great.
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SEX IS IMPORTANT IN A RELATIONSHIP,BUT IT HAS BECOME A CHORE FOR ME. HE WANTS IT 24/7 AND USUALLY GETS IT 3 TO 5 TIMES A DAY. WE HAVE 7 BUT ONLY 4 ARE AT HOME ALL THE TIME. I AM A STAY AT HOME MOM AND WITH ALL THAT NEEDS TO BE DONE I DONT WANT SEX CONSTANTLY BUT TO KEEP HIM HAPPY I GIVE IN. MY LAST RELATIONSHIP WENT DOWN HILL BECAUSE I WAS NOT PUTTING OUT SO MUCH AND HE EVENTUALLY CHEATED,SO I HAVE LEARNED IF YOU WANT TO KEEP YOUR MAN YOU HAVE TO PUT OUT. WHETHER OR NOT IT IS GOOD OR BAD SEX IS IMPORTANT, IF YOUR MAN IS NOT SATISFYING YOU RIGHT SATISFY YOURSELF DONT LET SEX RUN YOUR LIFE JUST LET IT BE KNOWN YOU NEED MORE IF HE DOESNT KNOW YOU ARE UNHAPPY THINGS WILL NEVER CHANGE.
Try to be honest with your man. Tell him your not enjoying and it is causing you to turn from him. If you don't let him know it isn't good then how is he suppost to know he stinks. You are the only one that can tell him that he isn't good. If you are not comforable telling him that there are other ways to tell him. Try to by a book and say hey babe lets try this position. Be open about trying new things in the bedroom.
I understand how u feel!!I'm going thew the same thing but maybe me being pregant is the diffence.LOLZ.I dont even have much sex with my boyfriend and its because sometimes i dont feel attracted to him or just because it hurts,lolz.If you really love him try new things to make it exciting,things youve never done.
No your relationship should not be based on sex, however, it opens doors for cheating. That's why it is important to have a happy healthy sex life. Communication is the key!
communication is the key to understanding what each other wnat and need. if you feel you cannot talk to your husband/boyfriend then you need to re-evaluate your relationship. when my husband and i met we had both been married once before and no children but we both promised to be brutally honest even if it hurts b/c you will never get anywhere if you are not. he should repect you enough to listen and really hear you. good luck. no sex is no the most important but a big part of the relationship. it definitley releases hormonal stress and endorphins!!!!
Your relationship should not be based on sex however, you should have enough communication in your relationship to let him know what you like and don't. Think about it, you're having sex with someone you can't talk to??? You should have been comfortable talking before you started having having sex, but things are sometimes harder than that. I am lucky enough to have a man that wants everything to be right in our relationship, but I'm sure if you talk to your hubby, he will listen.
I think that you need to re-evaluate your relationship. Not being interested in the sex you are having with you partner is a sign of emotional dis-connect. My emotions runs close with my sex drive, if i'm not feeling him at some point then I'm not going to want to have sex and if I do, its b/c I want to satisfy him and it bores me. However, if you have a open relationship I suggest you talk to your mate about your concerns and let them know what turns you on and what you would like more/less of. Some people think that is a bad thing to do b/c some people would be offended. I talk to my husband on the regular about sex, b/c that's does take a toll on your relationship when its not right. Try to be spontaneous also, I know that sometimes one can get comfortable with things, so spice it up a bit. Your relationship is not over, at some point we all go through this some just don't like to admit it. Talk to your partner try some new fun things and enjoy!
I once saw this movie "the story about us" problably one of the greatest films I have seen, I recomend you rent it. My boyfreind and I went out for dinner and drinks once and after a few rounds we lossend up and talked about things that we like and dont like about each other in bed, we later came home and had the best sex ever! now I have a 3mos old to prove it!